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Chloe · 10-25-2011, 01:29 PM

Say you are at work and just found a break in the day and the opportunity to do a short notice appointment. None of the ladies you know are free and you decide to see if one of the reputable ladies you haven't ever met with.

You didn't have much time to read reviews or website stats well, you just glance and see she is cute in the pics and has a bunch of p411 okays or yes reviews or whatever.

She jumps through hoops with a last minute screening and gets you in the door at the time you wish to see her.

You show up and are automatically not happy with what you see . . . at all, she is a foot taller or shorter than you like, 20 lbs heavier or thinner than you like ect.

She was not a bait and switch that is her in her updated and unphotoshopped pictures, her stats are all correct and the reviews are as well. . . .

Do you . . .
A. Politely decline seeing her appologizing for the inconvenience.
B. Go through the appointment scolding yourself for not doing your homework.
C. See her with an open mind at a possible great experience with a woman that isn't usually your "type".

BTW I am not necessarily speaking of an experience just wondered what the consensus is on this subject.

Masarati · 10-25-2011, 01:40 PM

Open mind

barker · 10-25-2011, 02:08 PM

Well if I'm taking off from work on very short notice and trying to make something happen immediately, it likely means I want it NOW - so definitely not cancelling. More of a mix between B and C, a little bit of self scolding but also hoping that things go better than I expect.

Tiger · 10-25-2011, 02:24 PM

Does fun not come in all shapes and sizes?
After all, I may not exactly be her cup of tea.

Then again, I think two days would be very short notice.

montana1958 · 10-25-2011, 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Chloe

Say you are at work and just found a break in the day and the opportunity to do a short notice appointment. None of the ladies you know are free and you decide to see if one of the reputable ladies you haven't ever met with.

That defines me more than I like to admit. My opportunities are usually set up same day and I have experienced what you asked about. I feel if I contacted them and if it is the girl represented or described then I am staying and being polite with my actions and behavior. My choice to reach out and their effort to agree to meet me short notice also lets my critical opinion be put aside and just appreciate the experience. You said unphotoshopped pics and they can also be a bit misleading. I may not repeat and I may be critized for not walking out but I for one would feel responsible. Now if the location was unsafe that is something different. But I have a good sense of where I am comfortable going and probably wouldn't agree to meet in an unsafe area even if they are available.

wiseguy14580 · 10-25-2011, 02:52 PM

C. Open mind. I'm pretty much 100% with Montana. I think I have only tried to schedule before the same day twice and it didn't work out in either case. If the provider is 100% legit then the responsibilty is all mine. Got to try it to know.

naughtyfun · 10-25-2011, 03:17 PM

C. For me also. If everything checks out and she is the girl in the pics and all her stats are correct and she does all the services I read in the reviews with no upsale. Hell ya I am game for a good time with a fun girl. That is what its all about, isnt it??

qixerotic · 10-25-2011, 03:23 PM

I would continue with appointment unless there was an obvious disconnect between pictures/profile and the lady. For example, very outdated pix or other misrepresentation would be cause for pause. Presumably one does ones homework and avoids this. I would lean towards C with overtones of B.

edcba · 10-25-2011, 03:37 PM

C here as well.

down2earthcpl · 10-25-2011, 03:48 PM

C... I would keep an open mind.. It still would be better then spending a day at work

chaz61 · 10-25-2011, 05:08 PM

C-- if all is as advertised and honest and true even if it turns out to be differant than you thought then by all means C when in doubt be a gentleman we are after all dealing with ladies. Who knows you may just meet your new ATF

lisa.lisa0302 · 10-25-2011, 06:03 PM

C. A good time could and can be had. I know I would feel bad for maybe missing out on something good. Plus if full research was not done before scheduling, its the not providers fault.

Sam54 · 10-25-2011, 07:45 PM

C. Great sex always starts with the mind (attitude) and not the body!

NerdHerd · 10-25-2011, 07:57 PM

C. I've learned to never judge a book by its cover.

Chloe · 10-25-2011, 08:12 PM

Thanks for all of the thoughtful replies on this thread as this was a true case that had happened to a provider in exactly the way it happened only sadly the guy did not choose a, b, or c, he chose to be rude and walk out. Watching the set up and knowing the girl to be reputable and exactly everything clearly stated allowed me to assume that the man just got his jollies off on being a jerk BUT I am not a hobbiest and may be completely off to what goes on in most of your minds sometimes.

It's good to know there are many open minded and uncritical men here in upstate NY . . .as a traveling girl you all are still a unique force to be reckoned with