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Originally Posted by shauk1960
Great advice Coyote, I took this one girl or woman with a bottle behind the stages in those caves and she promised all the things OTC and even gave her a ride after the club closed because her car apparently fucked up and she ghosted me after. I did all of this out of genuinely not expecting a lot but was shocked at the level of lows some of these dancers can get to! Never again!
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Dancers, like providers, make all kinds of promises to perk interest and see if anyone is dumb enough to loan money, prepay for services or help them out in some form or fashion, physical labor, ect. And obviously, you have to do this all well before any future promised BCD activities take place.
For these girls, it is all business and if they can get something for nothing, they will jump at the chance. The dancers I see only ITC, they know why I am there, I never asked for or got their numbers, and I do not prepay. I am all about business, they know the transaction that has to occur to get my business and have done it well which is why I continue to come back and see them.
Selectively, I have seen dancers OTC, and that is based upon lots of recon, talking and getting taken care of ITC first to know who I wish to take that next step with. I do not wait out in my vehicle for them to leave after their shift is over nor I have never been ghosted once dates have been arranged. There are a few that the relationship is so good, we have a great time, there is no clockwatching as we do dinner, ect. as well. No money exchanges hands during our time, then I find out from her the next time she is at the club, go in, get a dance from her and give her a few hundred dollars for the one dance.