A gentle note on comfort and communication

[MJewel]

I wanted to take a moment to share something from the heart.
Every session I offer is meant to be grounding, respectful, and supportive of each person’s comfort. I understand that preferences can vary—some people enjoy quiet, others feel more at ease with a bit of light conversation. I always do my best to read the room, but I also know I’m not a mind reader.

If you’d prefer a completely quiet session, please don’t hesitate to let me know—I’m more than happy to honor that. My goal is always to create a space that feels safe, comfortable, and tailored to you.

Thank you to those who offer grace, clear communication, and continued support it truly means so much.

[MJewel]

If you’re struggling with ED and prefer silence during a session, please say so. Don’t stay quiet and then leave a bad review.

I’m not here to judge you. I know ED can be emotional and sensitive. But I’m also not a mind reader. If light conversation makes you uncomfortable, I’m always happy to adjust but I need to be told.

Leaving a negative review without ever expressing your needs in the moment isn’t fair. I care deeply about the comfort and experience of every client, and I’m always open to communication before, during, or after.

If you want a certain vibe, a quiet space, or something specific that helps you relax, I’m here to create that for you. But silence followed by blame helps no one.

We’re all human. I offer respect, and I ask the same in return.

[CPT Savajo]

I thought good dick sucking skills could cure ED.

[CatMan4u]

MJ that post is well worded
and very politely stated I enjoyed my session with you

[MJewel]

Originally Posted by CatMan4u

MJ that post is well worded
and very politely stated I enjoyed my session with you

Hearted

[AgFox]

Wow! What a polite way to shame someone with ED.

[Cherokeechief]

Thank you MJ that clarifies a lot. Well said !

[Tocroc10]

It’s not about the topic or the amount of conversation. It’s about standing 3 feet away during the session and doing nothing about ranting. She sure doesn’t get it!

[MJewel]

I’m not for everyone - and that’s OK.

I work at a slower, more intentional pace. I’m a low-volume provider by choice because quality and connection matter to me. That means not everyone is going to click with my approach, and that’s perfectly natural. Nor am I going to click with just any random gentleman.

It doesn’t mean I’m doing something wrong. It just means my style isn’t for you and that’s not a problem. I believe in boundaries and I had to learn boundaries or get walked all over.

I value communication. If something ever feels off or unclear, I welcome honest, direct conversation. I’m not ranting, and I don’t take offense to grown-up feedback. I appreciate real talk.

We’re not all meant to fit everywhere. I’d rather be a right fit for a few than compromise to appeal to everyone.

[Layla.]

The first post was good the second was a little far… ED is SOOOO common no need to shame someone for it.

[Layla.]

The first post was good the second was a little far… ED is SOOOO common no need to shame someone for it.

[MrRightNow310]

Originally Posted by MJewel

If you’re struggling with ED and prefer silence during a session, please say so. Don’t stay quiet and then leave a bad review.

I’m not here to judge you. I know ED can be emotional and sensitive. But I’m also not a mind reader. If light conversation makes you uncomfortable, I’m always happy to adjust but I need to be told.

Leaving a negative review without ever expressing your needs in the moment isn’t fair. I care deeply about the comfort and experience of every client, and I’m always open to communication before, during, or after.

If you want a certain vibe, a quiet space, or something specific that helps you relax, I’m here to create that for you. But silence followed by blame helps no one.

We’re all human. I offer respect, and I ask the same in return.

This is a great way to alienate potential clients, and to try to deflect any accountability. Stop and take responsibility for yourself and understand that you provide a service, that you chose, and it doesn’t give you the right to out a condition that a person may or may not have, as an excuse to feel better about yourself. It’s like a lifeguard who laughs at you for drowning after charging you for swimming lessons, or a priest who hears your confession, then gossips about it to the whole town. You’re like 50, grow up.

[chodemnky]

Originally Posted by MrRightNow310

This is a great way to alienate potential clients, and to try to deflect any accountability. Stop and take responsibility for yourself and understand that you provide a service, that you chose, and it doesn’t give you the right to out a condition that a person may or may not have, as an excuse to feel better about yourself. It’s like a lifeguard who laughs at you for drowning after charging you for swimming lessons, or a priest who hears your confession, then gossips about it to the whole town. You’re like 50, grow up.

That's actually how my dad taught me to swim... it's amazing as many of us survived the 80s as we did..