Banning People

[soldierboi1123]

Why are so many providers banning black guys?You shouldnt punish all blacks cause a few of them are selfish.I have lately been seeing alot of black girls doing the same

[legman+]

As another brother of the chocolate persuasion, I can only say: get used to it and move on to the next one. It pisses me off too I must say ESPECIALLY when a provider makes no mention of any AA/Black exception and you call or PM her only to get slammed. One reason I've been told for the banning is that a lot of those girls have pimps so I guess it's a case of 'fear of the black dick/tongue' luring them off and losing their income. I have also been told that it's because of so many younger black guys being rude, crude, or dishonest that we all get canned for it. If it's simply a hate for black people, well... too bad, too sad... that's life unfortunately. I don't want someone who hates my very existence sucking on the most tender part of my body, do you?

That's why when I see a provider who openly post she doesn't mind seeing a black guy, I will always PM her a 'Thank you'. JAEBR & TNTAngie come to mind just off the top.

[guest043013-2]

Originally Posted by soldierboi1123

Why are so many providers banning black guys?You shouldnt punish all blacks cause a few of them are selfish.I have lately been seeing alot of black girls doing the same

Do a search in the coed forum, I think. This is one of those threads that gets re-circulated on a regular basis. All of the pertinent discussion has taken place.


Here are a few: (I did not read all of these, just picked a few to give this guy something to read...)

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...highlight=race
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...highlight=race
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...highlight=race
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...highlight=race
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...highlight=race
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...highlight=race
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...highlight=race

I actually was surprised how few I found, and the fact that it has been a while since we discussed this topic. My search must have been flawed.

Also, your choice of the word "banning," while correct use, actually probably has people reading your thread thinking someone has been banned from ECCIE, rather than the true intent to discuss the race issue again.

[HULKHERCULES1]

I always thought that this was just a way to let everybody know they were not the police. I mean if you say no black men how could that post be the police. They can not discriminate. I think a good attorney could beat that case easy. Hey Mr Judge why didnt you have any ads that said no whites or mexicans? Why are you protecting blacks? JM2C

[yourself]

I am almost embarrassed to admit to my naievity.. but I used to think when a provider called herself a "snow bunny", she was from the North.

Never would have thought it meant she likes black guys.

[legman+]

tigercat: Also, your choice of the word "banning," while correct use, actually probably has people reading your thread thinking someone has been banned from ECCIE, rather than the true intent to discuss the race issue again.

That was my first impression also when I saw the title.

yourself: I am almost embarrassed to admit to my naievity.. but I used to think when a provider called herself a "snow bunny", she was from the North.

Never would have thought it meant she likes black guys.

Well it's definitely true that you're never too old to learn. I thought 'snow bunny' was just a term for a white girl. Urban Dictionary has at least 3 other meanings more or less similar to yourself's usage.

[Ron Mexico]

Go with legman's advice, moving on to the next one is what I do. I refuse to beg anyone to take my money. In my experience some of the reasons have been:

1. Pimps don't want competition or the chance of drama if they try to rush a session
2. Lazy screening method
3. A ripoff provider doesn't want someone who's not going to leave quietly when they try to rip a client off
4. Some brothers, especially young ones, do everything they can to live to an ignorant stereotype.
5. Bigotry

[chipper]

I thought this was about banning members. I didn't realize that it was another thread about making a choice on who you wanted to see. Both the Provider and the hobbiest get to make that decision. Too expensive? Move on. Wrong flavor? Move on. This one has been beaten to death too many times. Lets find something else to talk about. I don't think anyone has changed their mind with all this discussion.

Chipper