I have a theory about this and that is that a "good" experience is a very subjective term, considering that everybody comes from different experiences.
Simply put, maybe one person hasn't dated a lot or has slept with less-than-enthusiastic partners in general. Well, that's going to be a person who is more likely to be thrilled with what maybe more seasoned individuals would consider a mediocre ho.
I'm like that with "anything short of a gimp in your dungeon type shit is 'Vanilla' ". But that's only because sex is and one of the few habits I have that I can actually enjoy successfully.i.e., I've been wild from the gate...but again, same theory; "good", "wild", "taboo", etc. these are all things in which everyone has very personal opinions about, as everyone's *perception* of these are different based on life experiences- and thus entirely too subjective in nature for everyone to agree upon across the board, ykwim?
So, believe it or not, that "cold fish" is someone's dream date. Different strokes, my man...different strokes...