Thread for the newbies...

[MarleyMonroe]

So i have been talking to a few of my fellow providers and have decided it's a good time to just talk about the way things are preferred to be done.

Ladies and gents feel free to add anything

Contact method- To keep your self safe and out of trouble it is best to have a hobby phone. If that is not a option and you choose to contact a girl via your personal cell phone, PLEASE inform the lady when it is ok to respond. For example: If you text at 10am for an apt include in the text "do not respond after 5" or what not. Or just email/pm her. Screening can take time or the gal may be off for the day. So when screening is complete or we return to play, we then respond to all emails or calls. This may be at night or the next day, which might be when you are with family. So save your self the stress of hearing that chime when you are with the fam and just let the gal know ahead of time.

Confirmation- Always confirm your apt. If u talk about a tenative time for an apt the following day, always contact the girl on that said day to confirm. It is never ok to just show up unless she told you to do so. Things can come up on both ends.

Screening- Only use providers you have seen bcd. Talking via email does not count.

Rates- Do not go by the rate u see in a review... that may be a special that was run or a set rate for a regular. Always check the girls site, or after u are screened ask her. You never know, there may be a special you dont know about

This is not a "bitching" thread, just a few tips to make every thing go smoothly for both parties

[texcc]

Good info, thanks MM!

[TxToast]

Very good info...

I'll add a few comments (obviously subject to review by the OP and other gals)...

1) If a gal has specific instructions on the donation follow them. Otherwise have the correct amount pre-counted and discreetly put it out in view (on the dresser for example). DO NOT ever attempt to hand the donation directly do someone you've never seen or make a big deal of it.

2) Initiate physical contact. That doesn't mean grope or molest her right of the bat but understand that initial nervousness goes both ways. Further most gals view this initial dance as an "LE check". Treat it like what it is, an initial romantic encounter. Gentle touching, nuzzling, kissing that naturally lead to other activites is not only a natural ice breaker but will put your gal more at ease.

3) P411 is your friend, most gals are members and it will help with logistics and screening....well worth the few $ it costs.

[guest031812]

Love the post Marley.. You have always been such a smart cookie Keep in touch
& I totally agree with TxToast suggestion number 3! P411 makes things so much easier! Just by requesting an appointment you can let the lady your booking with see your preferences and what you like! Always leads to a better session!

[MarleyMonroe]

Originally Posted by AustinsGurlz

Love the post Marley.. You have always been such a smart cookie Keep in touch
& I totally agree with TxToast suggestion number 3! P411 makes things so much easier! Just by requesting an appointment you can let the lady your booking with see your preferences and what you like! Always leads to a better session!

lol thanks girl!

Txtoast- very good points!!! Thanks for your input, it is appreciated!

[Guest091712-2]

Originally Posted by TxToast

Very good info...



2) Initiate physical contact. That doesn't mean grope or molest her right of the bat

I just giggled to death.

[Yssup Rider]

Great job, Marley! Even us oldtimers need to be reminded of the rules of the road from time to time!

... waiting for someone to come in here and shit on this thread!

[ztonk]

Originally Posted by MarleyMonroe

Confirmation- Always confirm your apt. If u talk about a tenative time for an apt the following day, always contact the girl on that said day to confirm. It is never ok to just show up unless she told you to do so. Things can come up on both ends.

Just thought this one needed to be highlighted.

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[sixxbach]

Great advice Marley for everyone.

Happy Belated Birthday doll................

Sixx

[Sexy Roxanne]

Very nice & helpful for a newbie