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Guest091314 · 06-02-2011, 03:30 PM

This topic may have been talked to death but this is a different angle...this is more aimed towards the guys that like to please their lady of choice first and be my guest ladies to chime in!

Only speaking for myself, I never fake pleasure or an orgasm, if i do not feel it i'm not going to fake the moans and groans because that will kill my mood alone (also i'm a bad actress! lol). I love a DATY lover just as much as the next chick but I am one of those girls that I will have a full on body orgasm then you might as well hang an "out of order" sign around my neck.

My preference is light and teasing oral play but dont push me over the edge unless you wanna curl up and sleep with me LOL!

Im sure the DATY kings have seen this a time or two...or am I just too sensitive?

PS---I apologize for anyone that has tried to call me, I had no idea my phone was not working properly...problem fixed.

LuvOnWheels · 06-02-2011, 03:40 PM

Very good and honest info...

motor · 06-02-2011, 03:46 PM

when i had a SO, i would always make sure that she was taken care of before I was......just being a gentleman........ladies first, plus sometimes things happened quicker that expected, just being honest.

Alyssa Nicole · 06-02-2011, 04:33 PM

I've been very fortunate with the gentlemen I have seen because sometimes it takes awhile to get me off and they have all been very patient

No point in faking because all it takes is a small correction or two if they're doing something wrong and the outcome is everyone ends up happy.

Jima25 · 06-02-2011, 04:34 PM

Ive given a couple of providers a big 0 (drooling thinking about it) but not during daty. Wish it would happen everytime!

Guest091314 · 06-02-2011, 05:28 PM

I am equivalent to the one shot guy, it is better for me to take care of you first = ), I love to be pampered but I get off more on pleasing!

Guest062512 · 06-02-2011, 07:56 PM

I love to "please" a lady, but I've found that for me, "things" work better if I get off first. Not sure why.

PoppyToyota · 06-02-2011, 08:20 PM

Crossroads you're not the only one. If I'm to have any chance at 2 shots I need to fire the first. Then we can TRY to get as many as possible for her.

Usually I just go with the flow though. If she wants to get hers first I'll follow her lead. My experience is when you go against the grain it can effect your session.

Prolongus · 06-02-2011, 08:38 PM

Alecia...gotta introduce you to Elmo....

casey jones · 06-02-2011, 08:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Alyssa Nicole

I've been very fortunate with the gentlemen I have seen because sometimes it takes awhile to get me off and they have all been very patient

No point in faking because all it takes is a small correction or two if they're doing something wrong and the outcome is everyone ends up happy.

patients ass ! they dont want daty to end...lol

rachet3375 · 06-03-2011, 12:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by alecia

I am equivalent to the one shot guy, it is better for me to take care of you first = ), I love to be pampered but I get off more on pleasing!

I will take that under serious advisement sugar, thanks for the heads up!

simpleton · 06-03-2011, 12:17 AM

I thought all providers have 4 or 5 o's per session. At least that's what the reviews shows.

Guest020720 · 06-03-2011, 12:42 AM

ha ha simpleton...if I read that someone has reported a ton of o's - when I had maybe one...if that, I do request that they make a correction.

Sometimes I feel bad that I have to tell them that - because sometimes, in their mind...they interpreted things that way. Hate to bust that bubble...but things can feel REALLY, REALLY GOOD - and then things can be "Holy Shit!...muther trucker sucking a duck!" and then you HAVE to get away from me for a moment...give me my turn to take care of you or just, well - lets fuck.

Sometimes when you know all a guy wants is to "get a girl off as many times as possible" or "I hobby because my wife doesn't do DATY and I LOVE to get a girl to orgasm." or should they show up with a giant massager, unexpectedly....THAT is a lot of pressure.

Granted...it's not the worst thing in the world for a guy to enjoy - FAR FROM IT.

Just - maybe not let the girls know that THAT is your "thing" right off the bat....

I'm fine under pressure at the free throw line...because that is not such a "personal" situation....
But putting me under pressure to make my body react to something...shit, even when I watch porn it can take me a good 20-30 minutes just to GET MYSELF off. To have the pressure of a guy going down on me for 5-10 minutes during an hour session .....and them expecting a result...(especially going straight for the g-spot and going at my clit like crazy all at once and right off the bat....that's just TOO MUCH, TOO SOON and TOO INTENSE.) It's just too much right away.

They say guys don't like foreplay for a reason.....it takes too long to get to the REAL action.

If you really, really want me to O...?

Get me in mish (i know, so boring right) and let me get at my clit at the same time that your hittin it. DON'T ASK ME IF I'M GONNA CUM THOUGH....let it be NATURAL.

isn't THAT the best time for your girl to O?
when you aren't expecting it?

dodger · 06-03-2011, 08:58 AM

Probably .. but not very much. My sessions are all about me. Only one of us is paying for the privilege. When I select a lady, I've read reviews and comments. How the guy felt is important.

Most guys enjoy sessions and activities when the lady is "responsive". Not "detached", "uninterested", or "mechanical". But I also don't want a lady carrying on way beyond the pale.

Most time my dates seem to enjoy themselves. I imagine they are taking a cue from me. If I notice that a lady is getting heavy into it .. and may need a nudge to push her over the edge, I'll oblige. Seems like the gentlemanly thing to do.

But the other side of the coin is, "oooh, baby. that felt great .. but now I'm really sensitive down there. we need to stop .. may I can .." etc. Hoist with my own petard?

LovingKayla · 06-03-2011, 09:17 AM

There's a provider I know that will literally end the session if she cums.

My recent problem is this... I have been able to quit the medicine that was hindering an orgasm and I'm not used to having more than one in 3 months, so this is new territory for me. No wonder I was so irritable at home. No orgasm means grouchy woman.

Apparently I'm different or weird, because I like the very slow and gentle approach until you get the motor going, then dive in... but I find that only 10% of the time. Where are the gentle starters?

Actually here's my general rule... I will work on you EXACTLY the way I like to be worked on. You'd think that would be a good clue, but I've not found the exact formula. Input welcome. Personally, my specialty is in working magic on you, so my own is a far second thought.

And am I the only woman that likes the slow gentle build up?