What turns you girls on?

[KCboy]

I know for me personally what turns me on for you girls is a great attitude, sexy smile and smart intelligent conversation. Of course if you wear sexy lingerie around me ya got me lol. Anyways I thought even though you girls are providing a service to us what really turns you on about us guys and really makes you get into it as much as us? Is it looks, hygiene, a large member or something else? What makes you go the xtra mile to get what you want as much as us? Guys welcome to chime in but really intrigued by what the girls consider a big turn on?

[guest033012-2]

I'm going to go out on a limb here and say a big, fat, throbbing...

wallet.

[Allie_Kat]

Men that smell nice & have a genuine smile and personality.

[Andrea Davis]

Adventerous Men, that a fun, well groomed, and not boring!

[JessiTaylor]

I agree with Allie.. being genuine goes a long way with me. A nice touch and great conversation certainly add to it!

[Thequeen]

What turns me on?? Football.. Oh wait you meant when seeing someone... Them talking about football.. It always gets me excited

And when they smell good and are just plain and sweet!!!

[jeniqueincognito]

Allie's right on target! Clean A man who is clean, nice smelling, and one who has an entertaining personality is always more fun.

[guest010313]

Yah personalities are nice and all but when I'm just looking for ass.........arms! hands! shoulders! I love "Man" hands. A little rough, a little worn.

[Guest121212]

The sexiest thing a man ever did for me was . . . clean my house and do the dishes. Seriously. I stood at the kitchen door watching, wet as the plates he was scrubbing and fell to my knees in front of him when he was done . . . The dining room table (and a lot of other furniture in the house along with most of the floor) saw things that day that would have made a couch in a club's VIP blush. It doesn't take roses or a card, or a gift. Just be nice. Thoughtful. Sincere. My point is - it doesn't take a grand overture and it isn't ever about material things.

What makes me go the extra mile, as the OP asks? Honesty. Sincerity. I adore when a man shares openly, honestly and is comfortable enough to be vulnerable with me - his knowing it is okay to be "real" - showing self-confidence without being cocky. As in all things, communication is key. As I have always stated, just be yourself - that is what turns me on. Looking into the eyes of a man being himself, being confident in his own skin and sincere, I have always found an attraction. There is a certain walk a man has when he enters a place confidently that lets everyone know that he may not pay the rent or the mortgage on the building but he absolutely owns the room. This has nothing to do with his physical appearance (that particular item is much farther down my personal punch list) and everything to do with the man inside. That "strut" makes me weak - and again, it isn't being cocky - it just oozes . . . among other things (oozing that is). I am a sucker for THAT guy - and anyone - ANYONE - can be THAT guy.

And, anyone doing my dishes, of course. Hell, I get wet when I call Molly Maids and schedule.

It goes without saying that hygiene, grooming, etc. is important - every gentleman knows that . . . I will say though that one thing that will turn me off is arriving for our rendezvous under the influence of anything other than the anticipation of what I will do to you. I don't judge anyone for their lifestyle choices, I know I am the last to want to be judged in return, but it really isn't a great way to begin an appointment (inebriated on, well, anything). Just be YOU! Don't find your courage in a bottle or a pill or in powdering your nose - and it certainly won't help anything you might really like to pop up and stand at attention . . . I'm interested in the real you - Be confident! I love it when my clients are THAT comfortable (and I work very hard to ensure they are), and in return, they get the real me that enjoys what I do, immensely. And, that's a very good thing, for us both.

Kisses,

- Jackie

[vitokc]

Originally Posted by jackie@sintropolis

The sexiest thing a man ever did for me was . . . clean my house and do the dishes.

Hey, I do dishes, clean, and laundry all the time. Are you done eating???

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

Scent: Fresh from the shower clean is wonderful, but I love the scent of cologne too. Polo Black in particular will have me weak in the knees everytime.

Intellect: I love, love, LOVE a man with a sharp mind. Give me witty conversation, and intelligent debate, and I'll make a puddle in my panties.

Grooming: Nothing says "YUMMY" like a little man-scaping

A little bit of padding: Call me crazy, but I love a man I can hang onto. Other women are welcome to the weightlifters. A six pack might make for nice eye candy, but I like a little meat I can wrap myself around - *cough* yes, the pun was fully intended

Smile: A man doesn't have to spend thousands at the dentist, but regular visits to have the teeth cleaned keeps them nice and bright, and prevents halitosis. I could spend hours kissing a man, but if he isn't getting his teeth professionally cleaned regularly, a breath mint just doesn't help.

Attitude: Sex is an adventure! I love a man who isn't shy about being creative and having fun!

But the ultimate turn on for me: SELF CONFIDENCE. Hands down. Its kind of like the Supreme Courts definition of obscenity. Its not easy to define, but I know it when I see it, and it IS the ultimate aphrodisiac.

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

Originally Posted by DickPeters

I'm going to go out on a limb here and say a big, fat, throbbing...

wallet.

Yup, cause none of us hos ever had sex or a boyfriend before we started escorting.

[Guest080613]

Originally Posted by vitokc

Hey, I do dishes, clean, and laundry all the time. Are you done eating???

I'll raise your dishes, clean, and laundry with the fact that I'm a hell of a good cook.

Jack

[MsElena]

I love a guy who can make me laugh, has a great smile, fresh breath and sweet eyes. It helps if he's wearing faint cologne (not take a bath in it) and can carry on a conversation with me.

The best thing a guy ever did for me was this........he had gotten a hotel room with a jacuzzi...took my hand, led me into it and then proceeded to give me a bath. He shampooed my hair and gave me a full bath, then he dried me off, took me to bed and I gave him.......well, I'm sure you can figure it out from there.

[lakecat]

A common theme from the ladies (I think each one has mentioned it directly or indirectly) is good hygiene. I suspect most of the guys on this board are pretty successful, classy gentlemen who take care of themselves and either come to a date clean or request a quick shower before starting since circumstances don't always allow you to shower before a session. But obviously this is an issue the ladies are dealing with (as it should be, I certainly expect, no demand, the lady to be fresh and clean). Can't imagine taking the time to find the girl, set things up, put up a good chunk of cash and then not show up smelling nice and being clean, but clearly that's not always the case. Takes all kinds I guess, sets the bar pretty low for the rest of us.