I do enjoy conversation as much as the next person, so my apologies. Now that I have reread your post for a 4th time, I basically understand what you are saying, and I have never seen the Sopranos, so I had no idea about the title.
The easiest thing to do is just laugh, be lighthearted, and remember you are sharing this board with lots of people with lots of different personalities.
Just like right now, I am laughing at myself and the irony of my original post because I have a typo in there that is pretty significant, and so basic it shouldn't have slipped by, but there it is. So here we have a post where I'm telling you to proof read, yet I actually did proof read mine and still failed ... HA.