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04-23-2011, 10:04 PM
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Join Date: Apr 23, 2011
Location: San Antonio, Texas
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Verification & Screening Question
First, my disclaimer... I support the safety and comfort of all of the providers and hobbyists that may read and or reply to this topic. I am not really sure if there is an answer to this, but I don't think I am the only person that has this question.
I have been a moderate hobbyist for a few years. In that time I have seen a variety of ladies. I would like to increase the quality of providers that I have the option of meeting and enjoying my time with. It has become obvious that in order to accomplish this I need to be a member of a site with a verifiable status. Herein lies my issue.
My dilemma is that I work for myself so contacting an employer is not an option for verification since you would simply be calling my mobile phone. Secondly, I have never found a regular provider much less multiple providers with decent standing in the community to give me a reference.
Ladies, do you do meet and greets prior to engagements so you can establish some level of comfort and trust? Any suggestions from providers and hobbyists about this situation would be appreciated. Thank you.
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04-24-2011, 05:46 PM
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Pending Age Verification
User ID: 2913
Join Date: Dec 22, 2009
Location: Out of this world !!!!
Posts: 1,840
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Join P411
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04-24-2011, 06:01 PM
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Join Date: Feb 8, 2011
Location: OKC
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I'll second that. P411 has opened so many more doors for me...
Even if you're self-employed, you can still get verified through them. Make your life easier and join. You won't regret it.
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04-24-2011, 06:15 PM
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Pending Age Verification
User ID: 24680
Join Date: Apr 29, 2010
Location: North Little Rock,Ar
Posts: 12,598
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I'll 3rd the P411 route !! They will do it even for self employed and its so worth it !!
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04-24-2011, 07:50 PM
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On Extended Hiatus!!
Join Date: Sep 24, 2010
Location: Central Arkansas
Posts: 4,472
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Join ECCIE, be active on the forums especially your State Forum.  Also, find a provider in your area that's Newbie Friendly. That's how I got my start and I still don't have P411.
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04-24-2011, 08:01 PM
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Join Date: Mar 7, 2011
Location: Philadelphia, pa
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Also DateCheck verifies who you are also.....
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04-24-2011, 08:20 PM
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User ID: 21525
Join Date: Apr 6, 2010
Location: Bedford
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With my screening tools I can verify self employed as long as it is a legit and registered business...if it is your name will have tracks somewhere.
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04-24-2011, 08:33 PM
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I smell Bacon...............
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04-24-2011, 08:34 PM
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Pending Age Verification
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P411 is great but I used DateCheck more.
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04-24-2011, 09:02 PM
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Join Date: Jul 18, 2010
Location: Texas
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If you happen to be friends with someone who knows the provider well, that works too. If you can pull this off with a reputable provider, then you can get the reference you want within the provider community. I know this wouldn't be applicable to most hobbyists, but I do know of some situations where exactly this approach did work.
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04-25-2011, 03:58 PM
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Pending Age Verification
User ID: 167
Join Date: Mar 28, 2009
Location: Baton Rouge/New Orleans
Posts: 994
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Originally Posted by nefarious
Ladies, do you do meet and greets prior to engagements so you can establish some level of comfort and trust? Any suggestions from providers and hobbyists about this situation would be appreciated. Thank you.
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Re: meet & greets prior to/in substitution of complete screening -- not many ladies will agree to this. Personally, if I'm not convinced beyond reasonable doubt you're who you say you are and are safe & sane, I'm not even sitting across a table in Starbucks with you.
But as everyone else has already said, all hope is not lost! Some "newbie friendly" ladies may be able to verify your employment even if you are self-employed, and P411 or DateCheck may be able to as well.
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04-26-2011, 12:49 PM
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Join Date: Apr 23, 2011
Location: San Antonio, Texas
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Thank you for all of the input. I'll look into P411 and DateCheck
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04-26-2011, 02:43 PM
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Pending Age Verification
User ID: 21422
Join Date: Apr 6, 2010
Location: New Orleans/Lakefront
Posts: 10,185
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Only speaking for myself, but I don't accept self employment unless you have an actual office with a listed business number, and are registered with the Treasury Dept. A third party screening site won't do much good with no refs attached to it, being we have the same access to background check sites as they do. Some providers even have access to LE databases lol, but we won't go there.
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04-26-2011, 03:46 PM
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Lifetime Premium Access
Join Date: May 27, 2010
Location: Forest moon of Endor
Posts: 278
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You can join P411 with 2 references. If your references are accepted by Gina, then you get 6 months free plus 2 immediate OKs
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04-26-2011, 04:05 PM
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Valued Poster
Join Date: Sep 14, 2010
Location: Mississippi
Posts: 517
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P411 opened up doors for me and then joining the eccie board and making posts and doing some reviews also helps. Even with that, many providers will still do their personal verifications and some may or may not accept you. If you find one that will not accept P411 or date check and you have been on this board for a bit, then I would look for another provider. There are many available and that is one of the great things about this board.
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