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ItalianaPrincess · 03-09-2011, 09:54 AM

Okay, so I've got a pretty extensive toy collection (what can I say, I get bored when I cant have the REAL THING) and I continue to buy them when I see something that sparks MY interest or I think that someone else would enjoy...it could be for my pleasure OR for my partner's pleasure.

Sometimes it escapes me (during a session) as to how to bring up the subject and IF the guy would even be INTO toys at all. I know one of my ex S.O's was not comfortable with me playing with anything bigger than him (so that kept it pretty LIMITED) but I know some guys feel the same way & even get offended. Some guys think that they are a distraction during our time together, and a waste of time completely.

On the flipside, there are some freaks out there and are pretty much open to experiment with lots of things with their woman. Sometimes they can add excitement and highten your sexual experience...

QUESTION: DO YOU LIKE TOYS? IF YES, What turns you on the most? IF NO, Why not?

c'mon - DON'T be shy guys. I really appreciate some feedback here

xoxo
ItalianaPrincess

Excellus · 03-09-2011, 10:00 AM

Hey, I'm under IP! First time for everything right?

Do I like toys? Yes.

Do any toys concern me? As long as they aren't used anywhere near my natural exit - if you know what i mean - and they are not a source of any pain to the boys, it's all good.

What turns me on? Seeing a woman get off in a completely uninhibited manner. If toys help, then I'm all for them.

If a lady asked me about toys, it would be hot. Just ask however you want to ask. Bring on the toys.

hd · 03-09-2011, 10:00 AM

I'm not familiar enoungh with what's available, other than vibrators, but if I were with you, or any provider, you just need to ask as I would ask you about trying something different. Hey , all you can do is say no or hell yes, let's try it!

I've only use vibrators on her while daty, but would be interesting to see someone with extensive experience with toys?

Boltfan · 03-09-2011, 10:06 AM

Freaks?

You called?

I absolutely love toys. Nothing better than some experimentation to see what feels good. What's the worst that can happen? Nothing some ice and some tylenol can't cure.

For the not so adventurous guys, think of it as a live porn show. Nothing hotter than watching a woman pleasure herself. Hell if you pay attention closely you will learn how to get her off as well.

And for another group, it could be a live demo for something to take home to your wife. Nothing helps break that frigid state better than a hard orgasm!

Tony Patella · 03-09-2011, 10:14 AM

Good question IP!

Experimenting is ALWAYS fun, simply ask the gent you're with. What's the worst than can happen? He says no? Lots of ways to use toys as well...on yourself, on him, him on you him on himself. The variety is endless.

Conversely, some years ago I had a session with a well known provider who I had never met (now retired) and she immediately began using a toy on me that completely ruined the session. She never asked, so I wasn't prepared. (mentally or hygienically) That made me very self conscious. Further, it was if she simply wanted to dominate me, and that has never been my thing and was never put out there in my posting persona. It ended up being one of my worst sessions in the hobby, to date.

Lately, I've had this fantasy about a quick session with a lady where I arrive, we "get comfortable" and then proceed to self pleasure while in close proximity. (Hell, I'll even bring my own Astroglide!) What better way to enjoy, while watching a lady demonstrate her intimate knowledge of toys???

Papacorn · 03-09-2011, 10:30 AM

IP - toys are great particularly for those that enjoy watching a woman enjoy herself !
I think if you offer as you talk prior to session, or in a session not to REPLACE the dick (ego crush) but as more fun. Does he want to use it on you ?

Getting a stuffy just thinking about it....lol

Tony Patella · 03-09-2011, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Papacorn

Getting a stuffy just thinking about it....lol

Papa:

Does the thought of sex affect your nose? LOL

obanrocks · 03-09-2011, 10:50 AM

Toys can be interesting. I prefer to drive, and that requires extensive trust and communication as to likes/dislikes. Having you bound while I tease you with your toys would be even better.......

filbone · 03-09-2011, 10:56 AM

I'd feel intrigued but intimidated (or intimidated but intrigued, not sure which) because I've never been around toys and am not sure how they should be used. Do I watch? Do I help? Is it supposed to make that noise and give off smoke?

fletch · 03-09-2011, 11:07 AM

+1 bolt

i agree that its hot watching a woman pleasure herself but i like to get in on the action. penetrating the v with a toy is quite an experience i must say, especially when she's into it...

sounds like IP is INTO it...

Wordsmith · 03-09-2011, 11:12 AM

Toys are great. If those aren't available you could always use soap or something. One lady I know enjoyed the soap in the shower a lot.

petiteassman · 03-09-2011, 11:15 AM

and certainly welcomed but looking at that avatar i think for an hour appointment you have all the toys a guy could want. id play with those 2 beautiful breast instead of an electronic device

Quote:

Originally Posted by ItalianaPrincess

Okay, so I've got a pretty extensive toy collection (what can I say, I get bored when I cant have the REAL THING) and I continue to buy them when I see something that sparks MY interest or I think that someone else would enjoy...it could be for my pleasure OR for my partner's pleasure.

Sometimes it escapes me (during a session) as to how to bring up the subject and IF the guy would even be INTO toys at all. I know one of my ex S.O's was not comfortable with me playing with anything bigger than him (so that kept it pretty LIMITED) but I know some guys feel the same way & even get offended. Some guys think that they are a distraction during our time together, and a waste of time completely.

On the flipside, there are some freaks out there and are pretty much open to experiment with lots of things with their woman. Sometimes they can add excitement and highten your sexual experience...

QUESTION: DO YOU LIKE TOYS? IF YES, What turns you on the most? IF NO, Why not?

c'mon - DON'T be shy guys. I really appreciate some feedback here

xoxo
ItalianaPrincess

LatexLover · 03-09-2011, 12:25 PM

I'm cool with toys! On you or me or both! But then I'm just a slut like that!

E2 · 03-09-2011, 12:56 PM

Not to start a therapy session on the topic, but I think that most guys might be a little self conscious / insecure about having a great looking gal and a bunch of toys in the same room.

Although I agree that seeing a beautiful woman pleasure herself and then having the opportunity to join in is pretty amazing!!

m5552009 · 03-09-2011, 02:03 PM

Toys can be a lot of fun. I like to be surprised with the use of toys and I am willing to try most anything.

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