Questions from a newbie

[coolsmoker]

I'm meeting my first provider this week and I have a few questions about do's and don'ts. I really just want to know how not to get robbed, get a STD, or get arrested. When doing a incall at the providers house what's the best way to give her the donation? When is it ok to ask her what she is willing to do and for how much? Making sure that someone isn't hiding somehere waiting to rob you. Any info would help. Feel free to send me a dm if needed.

[bilbobaggin]

Screen, Screen, Screen. If you do your homework ahead of time, and go with established, reviewed ladies, than you should have nothing to worry about. It takes some experience to screen properly unestablished providers.

If you're with an experience provider, and she knows your a newbie, she can assist with the unwritten rules. Just remember on a first date(and should be for all dates) it's always roses and time, nothing else.

[seekinggradeAbj]

Hey man, who are you seeing? Hopefully a lady from here?

When you get inside, drop the money on a shelf or other horizontal surface within the first two minutes of arriving. Envelope or no envelope, they don't care. Just don't say anything about it. Quietly set it down and it will be all good.

Once you're both relaxed and preferably naked (she might be nervous too, you're an unknown), just ask her if she has any rules.

Bring your own rubbers and take nothing inside except your cash and car keys. Leave all your IDs and stuff in your car. You don't need to have something fall out of your pocket at her place. Not that she will use it against you, but you just don't need to leave it anywhere, especially there.

Use a burner phone! Don't use your personal cell. They are cheap at Wal-Mart, just consider it a cost of the hobby.

When your session is over, ask if she is OK with you writing a review and ask if she's a willing reference for other ladies in the future. If she's ok with the review, write one. The more you write, the more ladies will be comfortable with you.

Relax and have fun. Most ladies don't care if you have a drink beforehand, but not ten. Don't show up sloppy.

If you see cops, don't freak out. Cops don't let themselves be seen on busts. Just go on about your business like you belong there.

Have fun. It'll be like losing your virginity all over again. You'll be nervous as hell and time will fly. But, you'll have a terrific time and look forward to the next.

Hit me up on a PM if you need further! Good luck!

[seekinggradeAbj]

Oh yeah, be clean! Bring a tip and/or a small gift from their showcase. $20-50 is probably enough. If they're good, show them your gratitude.

[FrankieP]

Everything above is great advice. Only thing I would add is that if you're nervous about somebody being there, take a quick look around. Also, avoid the Worlds of Fun hotels. Have fun popping that cherry!

[love2tasteladies]

Originally Posted by seekinggradeAbj

Have fun. It'll be like losing your virginity all over again. You'll be nervous as hell and time will fly. But, you'll have a terrific time and look forward to the next.

Indeed.

[Guest123017]

Research is your friend...

You do your homework and almost all of the concerns you list here - and others that will arise along the way - are often easily addressed...

Have fun and hobby safe!

[Zenovia]

Originally Posted by coolsmoker

I'm meeting my first provider this week and I have a few questions about do's and don'ts. I really just want to know how not to get robbed, get a STD, or get arrested. When doing a incall at the providers house what's the best way to give her the donation? When is it ok to ask her what she is willing to do and for how much? Making sure that someone isn't hiding somehere waiting to rob you. Any info would help. Feel free to send me a dm if needed.

Most of the well established providers will have current written reviews.
Research her showchase, chat with the other fellas in the mens lounge.
If her menu in her showchase doesn't give you a hint of what she allows, you can always ask her before meeting. (The written reviews will also give you an idea of what type of playmate you have in story)!
Best wishes
PlaySafe and have lots of fun!!

[joe blow me]

Some providers will not discuss what is allowed over the phone or text, especially if you are new. That is why research and reading reviews are so important like has already need stated. As you read posts doing research, you'll find some threads that are very helpful. (You're not the first to ask).

There is a post someone that is a list of newbie friendly verified providers and is a great place to start. You'll have to find it.

Good luck and have fun.

[Lena Duvall]

There's a lot to cover. Firstly whichever client is going to meet a sex worker and worried that someone else is in the space at all without the client's knowledge (much less someone who is a robber) is doing it wrong. Learning how to do your research, which requires one to invest time and effort, is important. Also, unless a companion doesn't clearly state their rate, there isn't any reason to ask about it. Again, this is where research comes in. Have a blast!

[Guest110920]

You may find the information linked in my sig below helpful. Good luck!

Edit: Also here in case I should happen to change my sig at some point:

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php...post1059905007

[TaylorKisses]

Well said! See chats like this give me hope that there a great hobbyist out there still.