1st time bad review

[summerpleasures]

I just got my first bad review and an up set about a few things that were said....
Im sincer about fixing what i need to and setting thing's right with all members (even if it was his 1st review)
...... so let me know what to do im open to all opinions...

[shorty]

Be more open minded on the basic requests (i.e. DATY, BBBJ, MSOG, FIV, Kissing) and don't upsale. Don't be in a hurry during the session and make it about the client. Relax, enjoy yourself and encourage the guy to get you off.

[summerpleasures]

thanks for the info.....
1st bb isn't in the question for me because its not safe no matter what people think i know the facts.
i do have a scar for a surgury i had abt 7 months ago bbut it is not big at all..
i cum REALLY REALLY easy so if he think i played it let him think that. i dont try to rush i start with a rub down and if a man dosen't act as if he wants the rub down i just go with the flow.....
i also inform all my callers im working on getting a nice place in little rock, just moved back from dallas so hope fully things will BRIGHTEN UP...

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by summerpleasures

I just got my first bad review and an up set about a few things that were said....
Im sincer about fixing what i need to and setting thing's right with all members (even if it was his 1st review)
...... so let me know what to do im open to all opinions...

Summer, I really like your attitude!

Instead of griping and overly-defending your position, or arguing about subjective opinions... You are obviously interested in finding out what you can change to make it a better experience for your clients.

A girl can't possibly please everyone, all of the time...but it speaks volumes that you're willing to give it your best shot! Attitude is EVERYTHING.

I totally concur with your perspective.

[Mr.Chan]

It is only fair to state that honorable lady has entered into market where certain activities are accepted as standard. Legal risk makes clear discussion before meeting dangerous and impractical. Decision on menu of course always up to owner but must expect some diners to be unhappy and perhaps look further. Such is commerce.
Also review is intended to allow gentlemen to know whether lady offer services that they want. A "no" does not necessarily mean bad. It only means that gentleman will not return.
Men in current market want experience like that of girlfriend especially at more exclusive pricepoint. Rushed limited menu easy to find on BP at considerably lower rate.

Originally Posted by summerpleasures

thanks for the info.....
1st bb isn't in the question for me because its not safe no matter what people think i know the facts.
i do have a scar for a surgury i had abt 7 months ago bbut it is not big at all..
i cum REALLY REALLY easy so if he think i played it let him think that. i dont try to rush i start with a rub down and if a man dosen't act as if he wants the rub down i just go with the flow.....
i also inform all my callers im working on getting a nice place in little rock, just moved back from dallas so hope fully things will BRIGHTEN UP...

[Guest032112]

Originally Posted by summerpleasures

thanks for the info.....
1st bb isn't in the question for me because its not safe no matter what people think i know the facts.. . .
i also inform all my callers im working on getting a nice place in little rock, just moved back from dallas so hope fully things will BRIGHTEN UP...

First of all, there are numerous threads, both on the national board and AR board from many months past that address the bbbj. There are plenty of FACTS to be had. If you really research it, you'll find the risks are minimal and even though covered, the exchange of body fluids occurs through kissing of any type and daty. Ultimately, it's your decision, but also know that it really eliminates you from claiming to be GFE by most definitions.

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Summer, I really like your attitude!

Instead of griping and overly-defending your position, or arguing about subjective opinions... You are obviously interested in finding out what you can change to make it a better experience for your clients.

A girl can't possibly please everyone, all of the time...but it speaks volumes that you're willing to give it your best shot! Attitude is EVERYTHING.

I totally concur with your perspective.

Ginger's right. If you maintain the "continuous improvement" attitude you'll build clientele and obviously make more money.

Originally Posted by Mr.Chan

. . . Also review is intended to allow gentlemen to know whether lady offer services that they want. A "no" does not necessarily mean bad. It only means that gentleman will not return.
Men in current market want experience like that of girlfriend especially at more exclusive pricepoint. Rushed limited menu easy to find on BP at considerably lower rate.

I would suggest if you really want to succeed, you'll need to separate yourself from the BP crowd which seems to attract the rif raf that has invaded the board here and created much of the drama that should be avoided.

You should also read the coed thread, "What do you expect from the Hobby?" We're beginning to gather a pretty good representation of hobbyiest and provider thoughts there.

Your fate and reputation you develop in this market is up to you. Much should be decided on whether you're having fun and whether you've chosen to please the market segment that will more economically advantageous to you.

[nightstalker2]

Summer I really liked that about you that you stick with what you know and were taught. Me myself prefer to see providers that are not GFE, not sure where the confusion comes in at about BBBJ being safe as well Has DFK. I do know many of my buddies will argue me down but I have been in the medical field for a sum of 17 years.
I have ran across a few ppl that have either gotten herpes as well as other STD's from oral sex without protection. True there is less risk but I do not prefer to play with fire and not expect to get burnt.

http://gayteens.about.com/od/sexualit1/f/oral_sex.htm

Now as far as kissing, not really a risk b/c the most common issue with kissing is getting herpes simplex like cold sores and such, but between 80-90% of ppl contract oral herpes in early childhood. Many ppl carry this virus and don't know it but the upside it you can look at your partner and do a visual check for cold sores .

So stay safe MS SUMMER. Don't sweat the bad review I'm sure you will get many positive ones, if you just treat them like you did me.

[ali*cat]

Summer, you are a gorgeous girl, at one time or another we will all get a bad review, no matter who you are. (now whether they stay up that is a different story) I like to think that there's plenty more who would gladly take the place of 1 unsatisfied customer.

All we can do is continue to try improve our services, offer 110% each and every time, and quite frankly if that isn't enough, there are always other ladies to choose from. Your health and safety is YOUR main priority, do what makes you comfortable sweetie, cause in the end it is you who has to live with the wreckage.

I use to tend to take a bad review personally and have handled it in the wrong way (this point has been argued to death). But with my recent health scare (possible MS) I sat back and remembered what was the MOST important things in life, and a bad review is very low on my list of priorities. There are entirely to many more important things to worry about than 1,2, or EVEN 5 opinions.

You seem to have the right attitude, love, keep your head up. The less attention you draw to it the quicker it will fade into the memories of everyone along with 100's of other bad reviews. Good luck baby girl.

And like Ginger said, you can't please everyone!! If you are honest about your services, looks, and gave 110% then you did your part, some people will never be happy no matter what you do, thank god I have only met a couple of these types. Most of the men I know are very thankful to have a beautiful lady there to please their every desire, and to make sure he leaves with a smile on his face and a couple of used wrappers (he he). If they want more than that, perhaps they are looking in the wrong field for the type of professional help they need. . . LOL.

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by ali*cat

...If they want more than that, perhaps they are looking in the wrong field for the type of professional help they need. . . LOL.

HA! That one just made my day, LOL!

[ali*cat]

And one last thing sweetie, what one man considers to be beautiful another may not. Women are the same way, for instance I can meet a totally HOT piece of man with the WORST attitude and it may turn me off, then I may meet a not so great looking man with visible flaws with the sweetest heart and attitude and may fall head over heels in love. Scars included!!!

[ali*cat]

LOL, Your welcome Ginger!!

[Becan34]

Originally Posted by summerpleasures

i cum REALLY REALLY easy so if he think i played it let him think that. i dont try to rush i start with a rub down and if a man dosen't act as

A little curouis about how you would know about the fake O??

[hornygolfer]

Originally Posted by Becan34

A little curouis about how you would know about the fake O??

Me too!

[Mr.Chan]

Originally Posted by hornygolfer

Me too!

Oops!

[Sonoman]

As they say, "Do not pass go" "Do not collect $200"