Making the tough decision?

[4moreand]

Apparently I'm indecisive, so I'd like your thoughts. New to the hobby and I'm trying to decide between a couple 30 minute tists with more than one lady or 1 hour with one lady???

Are 30 minute sessions worth it - obviously don't want to rush, but I can't make up my mind on who I'd like to see.

Horrible place to be in but that's my luck. Just curious what everyone thinks!

[Muffrider]

If you are a "get er done" kind of guy then go with a couple 30s. Plus, having a couple sessions under your belt will help you feel more at ease with the whole process. If you prefer a more "romantic" encounter then go for the one hour. But 30 mins will be enough time to enjoy the activities you are looking for.

[guest033012-2]

If you're nervous about it (I know I was my first time out) go for the hour. It will give you some time to get comfortable with the situation.

[growler]

Not a big fan of the thirty min. encounter, I like to spend a little time getting to know the lady........

[Sens55]

If that's the hardest decision you have to make, you'll have a fun hobbying "career". My thought, pick one...then learn from it.

[Autumnkc]

Ive had guys tell me the positives on both sides...
30 min sessions are a good 'first impression' type visit. You are gonna be nervous... so meeting someone for only 30 mins is a nice 'get it out of the way' type of visit. That way next time you can make an hour appt with her if you felt a connection or attraction.
I agree with the 1 hour visits too... you can hang out and wont be rushed, so you can begin to feel more at ease with them the first time.
Have fun and be safe!

[Sens55]

+1 Autumn. Well said.

[Redwolf]

I think that both you and the lady will find an hour date more mutually pleasing.

[ScubaBad]

I haven't ever done a 30 minutes appointment, I feel like an hour is not enough. I enjoy taking my time and I like lots of foreplay (which includes talking and getting to know one another). This is the same in my non-hobby life though so if you want to take your time and savor the moment, go for an hour, if you just want to have a heated get-er-done kinda time, go for the 30 minutes and if you like it you can always schedule a 1 or 2 hours for the next go around. Either way, have a great time.

[deepDARKdesires]

Good advice from both sides of your question. Why don't you try both, schedule a 30 min session with one Lady, when you are ready then schedule a 60 minute session and then you can decide which one works best for you.

[4moreand]

Thanks everyone for your advice - now I just have to decide who to meet!

[Sens55]

NOW you're on to real tough questions....