I just SAW this topic!!!! I'll chime in!
The Liberator company also has those wedges and things like that. I actually bought a vinyl mat for Nuru massage or other messy play so they offer items for sale that go past just the bondage stuff.
As far as playing a little bit like this with escorts, there are more that are open to it then they will admit. Advertising that you go a little further than some will isn't a good idea. For example, I'm a fairly vanilla escort.
But I have this other side (a fairly adept other side as of now). In the process, I have managed to alienate many potential clients because they're nervous or they're afraid that I'll have them in a vise grip before they get to the bedroom.
I'm slightly kidding but that's the truth of it.
If there is someone who trips your trigger, I would suggest bringing it up to them. You don't have to do everything. Ropes can be tied with a slip knot. Under the bed restraints systems aren't too scary.
A little spanking or anal play never killed anyone (probably a poor choice of words) and using a Liberator wedge to get her bottom sticking up in the air (or in various other positions) is hot.
No. Not a too vanilla question in this area. But sometimes, a topic can get overlooked (like I did!) and well, it happens.
Thanks for presenting a topic in another realm. And WELCOME!!! Hope to see you around again.
Sincerely,
Elisabeth
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