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Guest011914-1 · 01-23-2011, 01:57 PM

I posted this in the main nation forum but curious what NY thinks and why?would you rather a 19-20 something something female as as compared to 30's and above?

NormalBob · 01-23-2011, 02:17 PM

This is the kind of thread that can get a hobbyist in trouble or motivate answers as though we were all politicians.

A hobbyist doesn't want to pixx off someone they enjoy seeing or maybe screw up a chance to meet someone new.

I don't mind telling you what I think though.

I appreciate a total experience. From first emails/PMs/texts for the setup, great TCB, reliable start time, signs of passion as you enter the room, an attitude like the provider wants to play as much or more than I do, a non-stop two-pop effort whether I'm up to it or not, sweet affections upon my release to include offering something in the way of clean-up, pleasant conversation to catch-up, and an after I'm gone farewell text or email.

This is learned behavior by a provider who likes what she does.

While age isn't the driving factor, experience tends to be.

It turns out that the women who come to mind when I recall those kinds of sessions are in their 30s and 40s with the exception of one who intuitively knows how to inflate man's biggest sex organ, his ego (I don't know if naming her at this point would help or hurt me).

offshoredrilling · 01-23-2011, 02:33 PM

youth vs maturity

I have neither. Oh in a provider. Your almost old enough. But you may be too mature for me.

Guest011914-1 · 01-23-2011, 02:41 PM

...you are to funny...

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Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

youth vs maturity

I have neither. Oh in a provider. Your almost old enough. But you may be too mature for me.

offshoredrilling · 01-23-2011, 03:07 PM

Well youth is a state of mind. And if I had maturity, would I be in the hobby.

was going to post pic in my first post to this thread.

Maximum4 · 01-23-2011, 09:40 PM

It's all about looks for me to start with. Young or Mature. It won't matter to me if the provider has taken care of their body. It's mostly about what I can "see" that does it for me. I personally always have my hopes up to find that provider with the look / body that thrills me and some times I get it. This has appeared in many different forms. Then when/if they give me a GFE or PSE on top of it, then it's an awesome call.

However, I can still have a very good time with a passive provider, not even getting FS, or a provider with poor TCB skills if they are a 9 or a 10. Being with a beautiful woman is often my greatest thrill...

I can't have a really good time with a provider that doesn't visually turn me on even if they attempt a GFE or PSE and have great TCB skills. I might go through the appointment even, but I am usually wishing I didn't when I am done.

Youth usually provides what I want, but I have seen providers in NYC, Vegas, and LA who were definitely "mature" but had killer bodies.

LillyLilly · 01-24-2011, 05:27 AM

I think the all time male or female fantasy is mature with a great body and face, and great skills. For most of us, it falls somewhere inbetween. It's hard to find the total package in any age.

Biomech · 01-24-2011, 06:59 AM

Without getting too much into personal preferences, I think there is a tendency to, perhaps wrongly, see this as an 'either/or' scenario when often times reality is somewhat otherwise.

In other words, I don't think the stereotypes, for lack of a better word, always hold or that you are necessarily sacrificing one thing in order to get another.

I have been with more mature providers who had bodies that most 19-20 years olds would kill for and I've been with younger providers whose skills were far more advanced for their age than I would have imagined possible.

To each their own, and everybody is in this for their own reasons and/or to indulge their own fantasies, but my motivation is more about having a wealth and variety of experiences, so I wouldn't limit myself to 'youth vs. maturity', even if the stereotypes did hold true, which they often don't anyway.

roscoe14850 · 01-24-2011, 07:04 AM

Yeah, what he said!

m2244 · 01-24-2011, 10:03 AM

As a younger provider I think it is no different then it would be in everyday life........age is a number.........everyone is different and it has to do with the personality of someone and how they grew up........not the yr they were born.....

monkeyshine · 01-24-2011, 12:35 PM

Can we choose a third option? Both! Youthful & mature and mature & youthful! It all comes down to the quality of the experience for me.

Guest011914-1 · 01-24-2011, 04:53 PM

very well said

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Originally Posted by m2244

As a younger provider I think it is no different then it would be in everyday life........age is a number.........everyone is different and it has to do with the personality of someone and how they grew up........not the yr they were born.....

Laker · 01-25-2011, 07:19 AM

How old would you be if you didn't know how old you were?

Sundown331 · 01-25-2011, 11:44 AM

If they're under 21 they are probably too young for my tastes. Past that age however it isn't a concern for me. So ideally 21-50 would be my preferance.

duke1956 · 01-26-2011, 10:08 AM

It's not so much age as maturity and how they carry themselves so to speak.. I've known women in their 40's who seem to have never grown up (looks aside). The flip side is I know women in their 20's who seem to have it all figured out already. Having said that, I do believe women in general get better with age.