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Ms.Lady Y · 10-29-2015, 07:05 PM

I have had three guys from here either ncns, last minute cancel. I don't no whats in the air here, but I feel sorry for you ladies that have to work with this daily. I have never had guys on ECCIE act this way before.
I'm not going to put their names on here but they will be black listed.

If i did what they did today my name would be spread from here to Egypt.
I wouldn't care as much except for the fact that I traveled here (which cost a lot) turned down other appts because of these guys, my whole day was ruined and they cost me a lot of money.

It is very rude and disrespectful to just blow us off. Some of us have kids that have to be babysat, have to get rides from others. etc...

I have never blown off a client or did a ncns. I wouldn't think of it. I've traveled to a lot of states and i think you guys have got Iowa beat, that's sad..

Unique_Carpenter · 10-29-2015, 07:15 PM

My Lady Y,
Please don't lump the rest of us in with those guys.

But for those guys:
You guys have missed one of the better dates that know how to rock a guy, and get that guy to smile.
It's your loss.

BigDeal · 10-29-2015, 07:58 PM

I would post the names the same way guys post ncns for providers after the recommended 24-48 hr time frame

shit works 2 ways

ScubaBad · 10-29-2015, 08:34 PM

How many appointments do you schedule I'm 1 day?

RandB fan · 10-29-2015, 08:40 PM

Ya grow some balls

Ms.Lady Y · 10-29-2015, 09:03 PM

When traveling 3 or 4. So yes my whole day was shot to hell.

DallasRain · 10-29-2015, 11:24 PM

So sorry that happened! Hope your tour gets better baby!!

Emmie · 10-30-2015, 08:41 AM

Hey doll I'm so sorry that this has happened to you while you're in KC. Can you please pm me their names so that I can also put them on my DNS list.

davidspade · 10-30-2015, 10:08 AM

I agree with BigDeal.

Guest123017 · 10-30-2015, 10:48 AM

Just my opinion:

That is unacceptable behavior by some of our members. Life happens and sometimes you have to reschedule, that I get. But you reschedule! But nc/ns and so many of them in a row is wrong. This is a 2-way street and I'm sorry that happened to you.

If a provider behaved that way the posts add up and she would have to face the consequences of those choices. The men should be no different. Please take Emmie's advice and share what you can with the other ladies so these guys understand this is not how this community works.

Please don't let a few bad apples ruin the bunch, this truly is a great hobby community for the most part. Again, sorry this happened!

whatstheplay · 10-30-2015, 10:50 AM

I think NCNS is unacceptable, but I think a bit of latitude should be given for last minute cancellations. At least your the customer showed a bit of decency.

Hopefully, your trip gets better.

FrankieP · 10-30-2015, 12:10 PM

I say call em out. We can't have KC get a black eye because of a few doofuses.

bigryan2222 · 10-30-2015, 05:25 PM

Im not one of the guys, but any interest in hearing why the didnt show up? When it is a woman doing it there are a dozen or more posts asking for them to get a chance and I have had a crap ton of providers cancel last minute or after the scheduled time with family issues, car issues, health issues.

I should also say its none of my business, but adding guys to DNS lists because of a NCNS that did not involve you and you are not aware of his situation seems a bit rash. Just sayin. I think it is fine for the girls to share between themselves when a guy does it, but when providers break schedule we are expected to forgive it. Why not give guys a chance.

Ms.Lady Y · 10-30-2015, 08:22 PM

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Originally Posted by bigryan2222

Im not one of the guys, but any interest in hearing why the didnt show up? When it is a woman doing it there are a dozen or more posts asking for them to get a chance and I have had a crap ton of providers cancel last minute or after the scheduled time with family issues, car issues, health issues.

I should also say its none of my business, but adding guys to DNS lists because of a NCNS that did not involve you and you are not aware of his situation seems a bit rash. Just sayin. I think it is fine for the girls to share between themselves when a guy does it, but when providers break schedule we are expected to forgive it. Why not give guys a chance.

I am the one they ncns or canceled last minute. I'm being nice and not putting there names on here. I will tell the providers if they ask.
As for the reason's they did it, they were bullshit reasons.

One call a hour before said he was on his way and then a hhr later calls and says he can't leave work, well if your driving here you shouldn't be at work you should be in a car.

The other one said he didn't confirm the appt, when i have emails going back and forth were I asked him to confirm a couple hours before the appt and he didn't say anything about not coming to it. Because he did not say he wan't coming than he should have been here.
The third one i have not spoke to yet. So i have no idea what his excuse is.

I will put any guy on the DNS list that ncns's, I don't do it to my clients and I will not accept it being done to me. If i am not given at least a hour notice that you can't make it you will go on the DNS list, unless it is a true emergency...

This may be a "HOBBY" for you guys, but its my business and I treat it the way I treat my other business. Professionally!!!

bigryan2222 · 10-30-2015, 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Ms.Lady Y

I am the one they ncns or canceled last minute. I'm being nice and not putting there names on here. I will tell the providers if they ask.
As for the reason's they did it, they were bullshit reasons.

One call a hour before said he was on his way and then a hhr later calls and says he can't leave work, well if your driving here you shouldn't be at work you should be in a car.

The other one said he didn't confirm the appt, when i have emails going back and forth were I asked him to confirm a couple hours before the appt and he didn't say anything about not coming to it. Because he did not say he wan't coming than he should have been here.
The third one i have not spoke to yet. So i have no idea what his excuse is.

I will put any guy on the DNS list that ncns's, I don't do it to my clients and I will not accept it being done to me. If i am not given at least a hour notice that you can't make it you will go on the DNS list, unless it is a true emergency...

This may be a "HOBBY" for you guys, but its my business and I treat it the way I treat my other business. Professionally!!!

Most of that is fair enough. I will say that confirming an appointment to me is confirming that I am going to be there not that you wont be showing up. So when you say to confirm it a few hours before, that means its not an actual appointment yet. You might mean it different, but that is how it works in the professions I have worked in. It is certainly poor form to not follow through and not let you know it wont happen.

I also dont know what you consider a true emergency. I dont know the guys profession who couldnt get away from work when he was on his way, but Im on call 24/7. Work emergencies happen during the day and in the middle of the night. Our jobs are our professions and are going to be a priority. I say I am on my way when I start locking my computer and get ready to head out the door. That doesnt mean Im driving either. Just playing devils advocate since I dont know him or you.

When guys get NCNSed I normally tell them to say the name of the girl because that is the way to see if it is a pattern or if it is rare. I dont think is our business knowing the info of the guys that do it to girls so I think it is important for you to share that info with other girls. The good girls will easily keep good reputations if they NCNS. I would like to have that opportunity from girls when my professional life makes me cancel or my personal life makes me cancel to have a second chance.