Dress to impress

[vrgontx]

Have a quick questions for all of you people. Im fairly new to the hobby but for some reason out of the 4 girls that I have seen so far it looks to me like the way they dress it foesnt matter to them. One of them showed up in warm ups and sandals, another one in some dirty shorts, so far I've read reviews where the girls are dress to impress the guys. My question is: What am I doing wrong? I would like to get a girl that when we meet she'll be wearing something sexy, smelling good. Help please.

[Phrasing]

Tell them!! I've been burned on that a few times. Some ladies think the fresh out of the shower look is the sexiest...but I don't think so. Yes, the clothes come off quickly, but at least try to show some effort..:but they don't know to show if you don't ask.

[Perfect Playmate]

Originally Posted by vrgontx

Have a quick questions for all of you people. Im fairly new to the hobby but for some reason out of the 4 girls that I have seen so far it looks to me like the way they dress it foesnt matter to them. One of them showed up in warm ups and sandals, another one in some dirty shorts, so far I've read reviews where the girls are dress to impress the guys. My question is: What am I doing wrong? I would like to get a girl that when we meet she'll be wearing something sexy, smelling good. Help please.

Calling the wrong ladies Sometimes out here in west texas I will wear jean shorts or some jeans with a nice top and heels... The mini dresses can be a bit much out here and can cause a lot of attention... Make up hair and perfume is always a must with me... I will ask before coming over (normally) if I should dress down. Something nice still but with some flip flops or tennis shoes... This is cause some may not want to draw attention to the place they're staying... Guys are always shocked when they see me I always am dolled up ad dressed up like my pics... I think how a lady advertises is how she should look when you show up... But maybe thats just me....

Oh and thank you for giving me an excuse to share some pics

This was a photo of me on a dinner and fun...


Another on my way out the door to see a friend...


Headed downtown, another friend...


One of my outcall dresses


An older one but me dressed down on an extended visit, touring San Antonio.

[Oh Don Piano]

Originally Posted by vrgontx

Have a quick questions for all of you people. Im fairly new to the hobby but for some reason out of the 4 girls that I have seen so far it looks to me like the way they dress it foesnt matter to them. One of them showed up in warm ups and sandals, another one in some dirty shorts, so far I've read reviews where the girls are dress to impress the guys. My question is: What am I doing wrong? I would like to get a girl that when we meet she'll be wearing something sexy, smelling good. Help please.

Ask and it shall be given.

[utrlbk1976]

There goes Nikki, stealing the show again. Great pics by the way. I was going to say the same as the other guys. You usually just need to ask. It is nice to see a girl dress up and act like she is trying to impress at least. However, i don't mind a girl answering the door in a robe and nothing else. The faster we get naked the better, that is why i generally don't like lingerie when I'm playing. As far as showing up in sweats or jeans, while i don't prefer it, i can usually chalk it up to a GND look. That is probably just a way for me to not lose focus. . Lol

[am-a-pleaser]

Nikki has always dressed for the occasion with me.

Ladies generally prefer to blend in. Let each one know what might fit in with the outcall surroundings. Many tour ladies are not familiar with the various parts of town. Let them know they are coming to a high end location, moderate location, etc. Also, give them enough notice to clean up and change into something you'd prefer. Ladies do other things than just sitting around waiting for the phone to ring.

Maybe too, their sleep schedule is different than yours. Many ladies work at night, go out somewhere. They may sleep till noon or after. Or maybe they need to catch a nap between appointments. Giving them time to get ready before you want to see them may help.

Maybe also, let them know what you'll be wearing. Ladies see executives, mechanics, rough necks, retired gentlemen.

If all else fails, call Nikki Sweets, Samantha Thom ---- most eccie ladies are receptive to the attire you want them to wear.

[Perfect Playmate]

Originally Posted by utrlbk1976

There goes Nikki, stealing the show again. Great pics by the way.

Lol what are you taaaaalllking about... I was simply ceasing the opportunity to share some examples of how some ladies should get dressed to satisfy the eyes of a man.

Originally Posted by am-a-pleaser

Nikki has always dressed for the occasion with me.

Glad you like!!!

[Perfect Playmate]

Originally Posted by am-a-pleaser

Maybe too, their sleep schedule is different than yours. Many ladies work at night, go out somewhere. They may sleep till noon or after. Or maybe they need to catch a nap between appointments. Giving them time to get ready before you want to see them may help.

Maybe also, let them know what you'll be wearing. Ladies see executives, mechanics, rough necks, retired gentlemen.

These are some very good points... Different men like different looks... None are the same... I kinda think it is the ladies job to find out what he wants her to look like... I mean you are there to please and satisfy... Your appearance plays a big role in this for many. It could also save them from walking into a place where they may be over dressed and cause to much negative attention. As far as the ladies sleeping till noon, either your available or not... If you are available you should be ready... If you are out running errands but still hosting you should be ready in case someone calls otherwise, you are not available you are prebooking for later... We all work different tho... I know some ladies are just as you stated above... All though I disagree with that qualifying as acceptable nobody can tell another person how to do what they do. If it works for them it works for them...

[Candyman007]

Originally Posted by Nikki_Sweets

Lol what are you taaaaalllking about... I was simply ceasing the opportunity to share some examples of how some ladies should get dressed to satisfy the eyes of a man.




Glad you like!!!

Oh jessica you remind me of, you know who! That movie .....

[Perfect Playmate]

Originally Posted by hershey747

Oh jessica you remind me of, you know who! That movie .....

Call me Sasha

[Candyman007]

Originally Posted by Nikki_Sweets

Call me Sasha

Yes Grey! You have amazing memory that you just confirmed once more!

[Perfect Playmate]

Originally Posted by hershey747

Yes Grey! You have amazing memory that you just confirmed once more!

[john_deere]

some girls take this shit seriously, but most don't.

[vrgontx]

Thanks a lot Nikki for both; your coments and your pictures. Btw I know exactly where the first one was taken. And judging by what most of you guys are saying I guess I need to either start asking the girls what I want or just start seeing a diferent type of girls. In my mind since I started to hobby( which it wasnt too long ago) I've always thought that every girl will show up to date wearing sexy clothing, smelling good, wearing make up, nice sexu lingerie or all of the above. Now should I just stop seeing the girls that like JD said dont take their shit seriously or should I ask them to do what I would like them to do?

[Holedriller]

One of my ATF's I asked her to answer the door in her birthday suit, obviously this only works for incall. When a lady comes to visit me it is nice that they come dressed nicely but also sexy. Depending upon the venue I have to sometimes tell them to be very conservative in their dress. Once one of my dates met me in a public place for dinner before our debauchery. She was dressed in an elegant knee length skirt and a non-revealing blouse. During dinner she was sitting next to me and she grabbed my hand took it under the table, under her dress and between her legs. NO PANTIES that was hot.