"No" reviews?

[curiousguy04]

So I have an honest question:

I've been in the hobby for a couple years now and have seen only a handful of providers. Only really been terribly disappointed with my first BP experience and I didn't write a review about that one because it was in my pre-eccie days. But about a month ago I had a pretty disappointing experience with a provider (from eccie). I have been reluctant to write a review because I don't want to be "that guy" who everyone shits on for leaving a "no" recommendation and since I don't have that many references I'm afraid of the impression it will give to future potential dates. So I'm wondering, from anyone who has written a "no" review before, what has been the fallout? And any providers out there, what are your thoughts if you get called for an appointment and the gentleman has written a "no" review recently?

[Guest031216]

If its an honest review, its just that. I think it doesnt look bad on u from my standpoint as a provider. I would think other gents would appreciate the heads up and ur insight on why a person was a No for u. It may turn out that the next guy is ok with it or u may end up saving a guy time and investment. Just dont be mean. Lol...

Good luck and happy hobbying

[MartySmith]

I totally agree with Tatiana, if I am seeing someone for the first time I look for "no" reviews in the last year or so. Not to eliminate them; but, to learn why someone had a bad experience with them. Someone else's no could be a non- issue for me.

[Guest061415-2]

+1 to both of the previous posts.

[xracer8808]

I saw a girl with several no reviews. They were all centered on her running late. I liked her otherwise so I took a chance. I just scheduled her for an hour earlier than I really wanted. She was still late. But I had time plus she liked greek and was the best I've ever had for greek. Was an awesome time.

[Jon Bon]

No reviews are very important, imo. as long as you are honest and fair. Definitely, don't be a jerk in the review.

Here is what I would do, if you have a bad session, take a few hours to reflect on the events. Decide if you will want to see her again. If you decide not to see her again, and write the no review. Consider, She could have had a bad day or you and her, just did not click for some reason (ymmv, of course, it is reasonable that you are clean before the session and courteous).

If you want to see her again, talk to her, maybe she will give you a discount on the next session. And take it as a learning experience.