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UTRDaisy · 10-18-2014, 10:48 AM

So I joined this website for a sugar daddy. It was one of those with a free trial and then you have to pay. During the trial I got a lot of interesting messages but after I paid for it they stopped. I think it was computer generated so I'd pay the 40bucks..
Does anyone recommend any sb/SD websites?
Anything I should avoid doing when looking for an SD? I've once heard "you don't look for a SD, they find you" lol. But I've turned down free stuff and extra help from hobbyists which would have put them in those shoes. cause well I'm a dumbass and didn't wanna cross any lines. Now with my schedule changing next week I'd love to work something out. Any tips?

SpursFan · 10-18-2014, 10:51 AM

Www.seekingarrangements.com seems to be a popular place on ECCIE.

SF

Whispers · 10-18-2014, 11:03 AM

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Originally Posted by SweetSarahTx

So I joined this website for a sugar daddy. It was one of those with a free trial and then you have to pay. During the trial I got a lot of interesting messages but after I paid for it they stopped. I think it was computer generated so I'd pay the 40bucks..
Does anyone recommend any sb/SD websites?
Anything I should avoid doing when looking for an SD? I've once heard "you don't look for a SD, they find you" lol. But I've turned down free stuff and extra help from hobbyists which would have put them in those shoes. cause well I'm a dumbass and didn't wanna cross any lines. Now with my schedule changing next week I'd love to work something out. Any tips?

You should shut down your profile and participation here and everywhere else before you get started.

You should read some of the threads on the subject in the National forum

You need to figure out if you can be the FIRST hooker to actually make it as a Sugar Baby and not just be a whore on a retainer.

Whores crossing over into the SB world is a regular discussion point. You are not going to be afforded the protection of your personal life coming out the way it is protected here. Guys in that market network to a greater degree and there are very few wusses in the mix like you see here in regards to the discussion boards.

Most guys in the market are far better schooled and more level headed than you will find johns to be and the last thing any guy wants is a whore. Most know where to find them.

Outing you as a whore to others is a pretty regular thing.

The mindset of a good SB is nothing like the mindset of a whore. The entire value system is different.

If you approach it thinking there is money on a dresser every visit you will fail miserably in the long run.

Just as there are whores in the mix, there are guys that cannot keep from thinking as the programmed johns they became.

There are guys far more experienced that play it as a game scoring lot's of free and/or cheap pussy along the way.....

Once a guy gets a taste of what is possible from a lady that is there for a little extra help that becomes appreciative for the rest of what a SD will do for her they seldom turn back to this world.

Seeking Arrangement will not charge you as woman. There are upgrades you can buy but they are not needed to successfully navigate the site and meet guys.

Good Luck!

LOL!

Carnegie Steele · 10-18-2014, 11:06 AM

Seeking Arrangements (mentioned before in this thread) is the real deal. It's expensive for the guys and they specialize in the "college type".

One more bit of advice....if a man ever gives you his business card....take it. That's always a subtle cue.

UTRDaisy · 10-18-2014, 11:13 AM

Kooolbeans. I'm gonna try that site.
Even though "whore" makes me cringe a little I agree with u Whispers. Good advice.
And thank y'all for the recommendation.

Precious_b · 10-18-2014, 11:21 AM

Sarah,
As harsh as Whispers put it, he is accurate. And i'm glad you looked through the caustic delivery of the message.

inspector farquar · 10-18-2014, 11:24 AM

Beware whales singing tunes.

MsPrittiKitti · 10-19-2014, 10:24 AM

Great topic sarah!!!

UTRDaisy · 10-19-2014, 04:49 PM

Thanx ms pk

bearf15amc · 10-19-2014, 06:59 PM

Finding a SD is as easy as starting this thread. Finding the right one is harder.

Guest061814 · 10-19-2014, 07:28 PM

Whispers is spot on with this one.

As far as websites go, SeekingArrangement is the best one.

Another option is to put yourself in places to meet the right type of guy. I give the same advice that Patti Stanger gives. Go to Happy Hour alone at an upscale steakhouse. You need to make sure you leave the hooker mindset at home. Just go to have fun and meet guys. Like some else said, keep those business cards. Ask, if that's the best email to use. You can followup the next day with a quick email. Something like, "Great meeting you...maybe we will run into each again soon!"

The beauty of this is you get to judge chemistry and compatibility immediately. And don't have to suffer through the awkward first date.

Good luck!

UTRDaisy · 10-19-2014, 07:42 PM

That's a really good idea naughty muse. I wish I had thought of that before lol. I wish I had the balls to do that lol. Im kind of shy in the rw. But I feel like that's doable... I'm gonna use that site though and just keep my eyes open in the rw.

manuatu · 10-19-2014, 08:09 PM

Why do women over 30 look for SDs.... Should they know not better.. nonetheless string their kids along??? I am just asking because I am dealing with it...and a 1488 brother who adorns me...

Novatx · 10-19-2014, 08:22 PM

My experience with this type of thing, it's hard to meet a guy you don't know and just bam you're my ATM and I'm here for you. The two times I have a sugar daddy, both had money and both had feelings for me. And that's why they did almost anything I wanted. The one I have now , well he does almost anything but we fight a lot. But yeah the point is, I think he has to 1. Have money to waste 2. Like you a lot . I'm not a perfect 10 with big titties so it's not about that as some of us believe

Still Looking · 10-20-2014, 05:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Novatx

My experience with this type of thing, it's hard to meet a guy you don't know and just bam you're my ATM and I'm here for you. The two times I have a sugar daddy, both had money and both had feelings for me. And that's why they did almost anything I wanted. The one I have now , well he does almost anything but we fight a lot. But yeah the point is, I think he has to 1. Have money to waste 2. Like you a lot . I'm not a perfect 10 with big titties so it's not about that as some of us believe

Ever wonder why some super hot chicks hit the scene and disappear? Yes some decide it's not for them but others get taken off the market by these guys that have "money".