Sugar Daddy Advice

[downtownmt]

Hey all, I guess I would classify myself as a "novice hobbyist". Been to the the Henrietta/Perinton MP's over 15 times, and have frequented escorts in Niagara Falls when I'm there on business. I am in new territory now though and would like advice if i can get it.

Meet an attractive black woman on POF, who after a few chat sessions made her intentions clear that she wants a sugar daddy. We agreed on $100 a visit, 2-4 times a month. I meet her for our introductions where i gave her a $50 spot for our official first meeting later this week, when i would give her the other $50. After chatting, she said she would like to spend more than just an hour with me, just hanging out, and possibly spending the night. I just don't know what the warning signs are in thesse type of situations. All input is appreciated. Thanks.

[Franklin4]

bubba, is she in Roch ??
hell i'll like to take her out and all that
throw her info my way there bubba

[downtownmt]

The woman has a 3 year old, has a roommate, and live in Lyons which is well known for PT. Any others out there have some helpful information (no offense Franklin4).

[Doove]

Originally Posted by downtownmt

Meet an attractive black woman on POF, who after a few chat sessions made her intentions clear that she wants a sugar daddy. We agreed on $100 a visit, 2-4 times a month.

I'm not sure this qualifies as a true "sugar daddy" situation, though there are no real set rules in that regards.

Nevertheless, i'm sure gotyour6 will be eager to share some advice with you when he has a chance.

[downtownmt]

I'm new to this "sugar daddy" thing and don't really know what I'm doing. Confidence makes the man though and sticking with that rule. Appreciate all input.

[su0185]

I'm even a bigger novice, what is POF?

[su0185]

Never mind, I found POF. Imagine that it is www.pof.com

[cowboy8055]

Originally Posted by downtownmt

The woman has a 3 year old, has a roommate, and live in Lyons which is well known for PT. Any others out there have some helpful information (no offense Franklin4).

The best advice I could give you is avoid being a sugar daddy.

[Lexxxy]

99% of us there are sugar babies and escorts. I started being a sugar baby on dating sites and fetish sites many many many moons ago.
I wouldn't really consider what you do as being a sugar daddy. Sugar daddy is like being a bf but with boundaries and rules. Sugar daddy spends a lot of time with his sb, pays some of her bills, and gives her an allowance that she earns.
There are all kinds of different relationships. I've had real business strict ones for example he paid my car insurance and gave me whatever car I wanted off of his lot for as long as I wanted I literally had a different car every month for a year and I just saw him for an hour twice a week. On the opposite I have had a lot of really heavy gfe ones where I see them a lot, cook for them, do and put away their laundry, bake, stay over, go on trips together, and so on. It all really depends on your time, finances, chemistry, and if you have a significant other or not. Obviously your sb can't bake you homemade cookies, bread, and chicken Alfredo in your kitchen and take your car out if you have a wife Lmfao.

[Lexxxy]

Now that it's not 1 am while I'm brain dead I realized something important that I forgot to add. You better know this girl well and trust her if you are going to be her sugar daddy and vice versa. You will both know pretty much everything there is to know about each other especially if she is staying in your home and you are paying her bills. Tbh it can be scary if I was a complete psycho and scum bag I know off of the top of my head a sds credit card number and everything because he has given the card to me so many times throughout the years and given it to me to buy myself things online and online shop for his family's presents throughout the years. Credit cards are broken up into 4 numbers across it which is for optimal memorizing that's why they do that. Hell he signs dmv papers for his company then has me fill them out and take them to the dmv for him. That takes years of trust and even then if I was a POS I could screw him over so badly. Do you want someone having that control over you?
Do you trust this girl enough to have that info? Really ask yourself that.
I think 9 times out of 10 it's safer and smarter for both parties to just keep it simple and have a by the hour relationship.

[JohnnyCap]

Hmmm. Might be worth more introspection. Sugar babies and escorts?

[xtsy79]

Get yourself premium access to this site. Buy it if necessary. On the main ECCIE page there is a forum totally for sb/sd discussions. Plenty of threads with all related info.

I will tell you nothing of value will come out of Lyons. From what you descibe that is just a hooker looking to get paid for play. Pof seriously lol. Why would a girl be looking for a cheap skate daddy on a site that is free. Hello

[Amber Does]

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[Foxhunterx]

Originally Posted by Amber Does

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Amber . ??