Providers saying "No African Americans"

[teddawhale]

So I'm not african-american but I'm also not caucasian. I am on the dark side (south-asian descent). Would providers that have a "No AA" policy be upset if I scheduled with them? The last thing I want is an unenthusiastic provider so I just wanna pursue a bit of clarification on this distinction.

Im assuming "No AA" is a personal preference for people, and I'm cool with that I guess, to each their own. But is it based on purely color of skin or the culture that providers are assuming is associated with those of african-american descent?

Thanks for the help, this is the main issue that has been stopping me from regularly participating in the hobby.

[Houston.Epicurean]

As near as I can tell all the providers who advertise here have pm ability. Why not just explain the situation if they have a no aa policy and avoid the risk of a misunderstanding and bad meeting for both. Quite often the same words mean different things to different people. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.

[tbone77494]

Correct. "I'm not black, I just have black skin" will not be grasped by some of these ladies. I would keep the pm simple, and if they don't easily grasp it and say yes I would quickly move on.

[Prime Time]

Tommie Smith and John Carlos can't hear what hookers say because their ears are plugged with Olympic gold medals.

[nice1]

why would you even hustle for lady who you think might not be interested in you?

[Wakeup]

John Carlos never won an Olympic gold medal...and Tommie Smith only won one...

[kerwil62]

OP,

If you're having doubts about those particular NBA providers it isn't worth chasing after them. There are way more that aren't NBA. Those are the ones you should try to see.

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by kerwil62

OP,

If you're having doubts about those particular NBA providers it isn't worth chasing after them. There are way more that aren't NBA. Those are the ones you should try to see.

What he said.

The arguments will go on and on and on as to WHY some ladies are NBA and the right and wrong of it, but it is their choice and it is unlikely that they will change their minds. Teddawhale, alas, as a dark-skinned gentleman of South Asian descent, you probably would be included in most NBA policies. However, I have heard that some providers, if approached privately and guaranteed that there will be no subsequent review, can be swayed if they are doing it for reasons of perception by their other clients rather than a personal abhorrence. I think that's namby-pamby, but I understand it.

There are so many ladies, like I, who are open to the rainbow of male variety, that it seems far simpler to just choose someone who won't give you a hassle from the get-go.

[Lexieinhouston]

+ 1 to Kerwil & Fancy; I do not have an NBA policy, but if I did I wouldn't think South Asian would fit in this category. I think may ladies have the policy due to outdated stereotypes.

South Asia
noun
the countries and land area of Afghanistan, Bangladesh, Bhutan, Sri Lanka, India, the Maldives, Nepal, and Pakistan.




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[Guest072624]

Im not NBA or any color i wont see.....im an all color type of girl.

[Guest062217]

The kicker is..there are some providers who won't see / book a session with a hobbyist who has been with AA providers. Kind of a roundabout way of an NBA policy. To each there own...my Italian sausage has no country borders and is color-blind...

[Wakeup]

I love how these threads always turn into threADs for all the hookers who want to chime in and say they don't have an NBA policy...

[Alyssa XOXO]

Originally Posted by teddawhale

So I'm not african-american but I'm also not caucasian. I am on the dark side (south-asian descent). Would providers that have a "No AA" policy be upset if I scheduled with them? The last thing I want is an unenthusiastic provider so I just wanna pursue a bit of clarification on this distinction.

Im assuming "No AA" is a personal preference for people, and I'm cool with that I guess, to each their own. But is it based on purely color of skin or the culture that providers are assuming is associated with those of african-american descent?

Thanks for the help, this is the main issue that has been stopping me from regularly participating in the hobby.

Sweetie, IMO AA is not just about color. From my personal experience, when you are of AA decent, I will know (and before the jokes begin, it has nothing to do with your dick lol). You should be fine, if they are bothered by your skin color, then they may be color struck as well. Good luck!

[Dorian Gray]

I blame Obama.

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by Wakeup

I love how these threads always turn into threADs for all the hookers who want to chime in and say they don't have an NBA policy...

Then people should stop STARTING them! This is an issue that has been discussed to the brink of death.

However, the OP does breathe a wee bit of new life into the debate with a point I had not seen (or missed) before about the perception of a dark-skinned South or Southeast Asian as opposed to AA. I know some providers would lump him in the "no fly" category, thinking that anyone "not white isn't right."

I will admit, to my shame, that for a while early in my Fancy career I stopped seeing anyone from a couple of the countries Lexie listed as I had 4 very bad experiences in a row with fellows born and raised in said countries. Seems they had the idea of, "I paid for you, I can do whatever I want TO you," and although they did not hit me (I would still be in prison for murder), they left me with bruises and bad memories.

After a panel discussion with my brain, conscience, ego, twat, wallet, and a can of pepper spray I purchased, I decided that I was being foolish holding an entire culture responsible for the actions of a few. My next visitor from the region was truly a gentlemen, highly educated, very generous, gentle and thoughtful, and we continued playing together for about a year, until he moved back east. I have had many successful encounters since in the field of "international relations."