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Your Online Reputation Matters. Ours does not.- Sorry Ladies but you simply never win
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Your Online Reputation Matters. Ours does not.- Sorry Ladies but you simply never win
It may not be fair.
But getting into online pissing matches has never worked out well for any female poster on the boards that I can recall.
When a guy makes a call or sends a PM to a lady the majority of ladies MIGHT check references but other than look at his profile and see the number of reviews he wrote there are very few ladies that care much more than wanting to know the guy is safe and known to pay.
But guys use the board for it's design. They use the search feature.
I understand the validity to the argument that even poor publicity generates an increase in business. I also know it is short lived but the words posted here are forever.
Not too many guys click that button looking for a drama queen or a fearless fighter that will trade barbs with a guy.
When the guy that joined the board last week sees an ad and types your name in and sees threads where you are coming off as a royal bitch you lose a client.
When the guy that joined the board last week sees an ad and types your name in and sees threads where your health is being discussed you lose a client
When the guy that joined the board last week sees an ad and types your name in and sees threads where you are accused of having poor BCD you lose a client
When the guy that joined the board last week sees an ad and types your name in and sees threads where you are accused of NCNS you lose a client
When the guy that joined the board last week sees an ad and types your name in and sees threads where you are center of controversy over an outing or the lack of discretion with client's information..... you lose a client...
You may not lose EVERY client..... There are some that look at your pics and dial your number with one hand... dick in the other....
I have been one that has been accused of being controversial,an asshole, a misogynist and a stream of other names by men and women on these boards for 14 of the 15 years I have been posting.... I know many of the guys like me with similar reputations.
It did not stop me from writing 100s of reviews.... It has never stopped me from seeing a lady I wanted to see..... and it did not stop me from seeing a lady that swore she would never see Whispers.....
It does not stop others like me....
Why?
I am safe.
I am a gentleman.
I have no strange requests.
I have money.
I pay what is owed.
That is all the vast majority of providers truly care about when a guy wants to see them and I can provide the names of multiple ladies that will verfy exactly that about me if I want to......
Although I've been around all these years..... very few ladies have ever known more than that about me.....
Those of you that READ and/or Participate in the forums are a huge minority. It's been that way for 15 years.....
You are not going to be the first one that thinks she is strong enough to overcome it....
You are not going to be the first one to wonder later where your popularity went.....
Then again..... If a guy logs in and searches for a Drama Queen.... maybe you can fill that niche....
So, about a month ago SL and I had a little SQUABBLE and in this particular instance I WAS WRONG…
So, I went out and bought a YELLOW BIKINI, his favorite color, and this is what I did:
Thank you SL for accepting my humble apology and for being the great friend that you are!! Have a GREAT TRIP VACATION!!
I am not sure how it relates to this thread that Still Looking's favorite color is yellow, that the two of you had a "squabble", that you and he are great friends and that he is on a trip/vacation......
If you lack the ability to post relevant to a thread topic eventually I think points should catch up to you and then we will see a 90 day ban.....
I also think SOME, perhaps not SL, but SOME men might not like you sharing that they have a special relationship with the, what their favorite color is, that the two of you had a "squabble", and that he is on a trip/vacation......
a suspicious ex wife might read something like that and think.. ya know.. My ex's favorite color is yellow wand he is away on a vacation right now....
SLAVE G... Your lack of discretion knows no bounds just as your lack of common sense is becoming legendary.....
It's 10:01pm, my ride's late, and hott guys and free martinis await && then...
It's Memorial Day weekend. Give it a rest and go have some RW fun. Ya'lls online rep does matter fyi. More than you think. As to why some providers have a list of DNS that are a Harry Potter movie script long. 15 years is a long time. You must be exhausted.
Anyhoooooooooooo, FUN Sat night awaits you, I can only imagine
Good luck with the sausage fest of insults and arguments about to inaugurate all up in here which I'm SURE are the intentions you have....sitting there, refreshing your comp screen, multiple windows open, scratching your head/balls....FUN Sat indeed
Well that's great that you realized right from wrong...even better that you apologized. Way to go!
Now lets work on recognizing and acknowledging issues. You've already proven that you have that ability,in the example above. So now it's just a matter of putting that ability to use and address any issues that may or may not exist. But that was a very good way to deal with that matter.
-There was a problem.
-It was discussed.
-Problem was solved.
-Everybody is happy.
-You got a yellow bikini.
-SL goes away on a trip.
See how easy that was? It doesn't have to be difficult.
Can you imagine what would have happened had you ignored the problem?
That's right. No yellow bikini and no pictures of the yellow bikini by the bathroom sink.
Aside from the beautiful distraction, thanks Slave =), Whispers brings up some good points. I use the search feature often, look for flakes, and keep up with top shelf quality ladies through review experiences. Don't agree with Whispers often..but this is worth a read.
I may stand alone but it's NOT the first time. I judge people by how they treat me. Not by what has been said about them by others. I was attacked to Slave by her kind and respectful posts well over a year ago. Before I ever met Slave we exchanged PM'S and emails for some time. I consider her a friend. A friend I can trust. She is some one who has laughed with me and at me. I have spoke to and met others that respect and share the same feelings as I do about Slave. So to be perfectly honest I could care less if a 1000 threADS get started about her good or bad, she is just my friend and I like her. I don't pay her rent or see her BCD yet she went out and bought especially for me items because they were yellow my favorite color and on a separate occasion she went out and bought St Pauli Girl beer as I requested. Who does that? Slave does and doesn't even think about it. She is just that nice. She has a long line of followers and for good reasons. Just read her reviews and that should be crystal clear. So Slave here you go.... I'm happy to be able to call you my friend!
Whispers is well know and a legend in the strip clubs. He has taken strippers and made them available by helping them. The man has accomplished things seemingly impossible to others. His work for charity is unmatched by anyone. More commonly know as The Godfather...Whispers has been around almost forever. Any one who has met him knows he is just a big teddy bear. So if you LOVE to hate him here on the board what ever you do DON'T go to a social and meet him. Your opinion might be changed forever. Whispers stands up for what he thinks is right. I really respect that about him. He and I share a common distain for pimps and dirt bag agencies that take advantage of ladies. He has helped many a provider and hobbyist behind the scenes and is always there to lend a helping hand when asked. So I like The Godfather and consider him a friend as well. So here you go Godfather.
SKF reached legendary status in my book well before he published without a doubt the funniest video of all time here on ECCIE. If you have NOT watched it you have no idea what you are missing:
The man is funny and has a unique perspective. Behind the scenes he has been very kind and helpful to me. Every time I asked a question he went on a mission to help me. If SKF thinks your right he will come by your side regardless of what others might say. He stands up for what he thinks is right. The man can beat a dead horse and will continue even if they bring a fresh dead horse. He has a passion about life and I consider him a tunnel buddy. Now he might come back and give me shit about things I say and do but its just hard not to like him. There is just something about that creepy guy I like! So here you go SKF.
Still looking, your tone sounds like the coaching staff when they were letting us know about someone who would no longer be with the team.
Two more days and I'm off to chase those tricky trout in Montana and Idaho. Life is good and man can not live by hookers alone. I'm just looking forward to a well deserved three week vacation.
Your Online Reputation Matters. Ours does not.- Sorry Ladies but you simply never win
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