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Old 03-15-2014, 10:22 PM   #1
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What is the reason for and fascination with, whether we are married or not? I have yet to encounter a provider that has not asked if I am married. Does it make a difference? Will I get better service? Will you look at my ID and call home and ask my spouse what I like in bed?
I just don't see the purpose for asking, other than to guilt us. If you have better reason let me know.
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Old 03-16-2014, 12:50 AM   #2
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well,,, if they had any other ideas in mind, they prob not going to divulge it here, in the open,,lol


my guess is their going to say to "make friendly small talk"



and call it a day here
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Old 03-16-2014, 12:52 AM   #3
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although this could get great with some


"because im going to shove that info sideways up your ASS if you EVER say anything bad about me"

stories.........lol


so hey... lets see...
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Old 03-16-2014, 05:26 AM   #4
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Just Wonder.
Small talk.
Psychology... reasons why you do this. Your reaction about being married says a lot.

Also...being prepared for an outed man and disgruntled wife. Lol
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Old 03-16-2014, 05:47 AM   #5
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They ask me because I am irresistible. It is a curse but one I am willing to live with.
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Old 03-16-2014, 06:47 AM   #6
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There's no chance of getting enough honest answers to compile a worthwhile result.

It's one part small talk, one part nefarious info gathering, and one part judgement. The judgement is more attributable to women than providers. (I never had a tranny ask me if I was married, but then again I kicked them out of the car as soon as the error was realized.)
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Old 03-16-2014, 07:19 AM   #7
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doesnt the ring give it away..

but seriously..
rarely do I ask..not really a concern of mine....
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Old 03-16-2014, 08:39 AM   #8
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aj, some of the fucktards remove their wedding rings from their noses prior to a session.
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Old 03-16-2014, 08:57 AM   #9
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oh yea..
.i dont mind that they leave them on..they cant forget or lose them that way..
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Old 03-16-2014, 10:14 AM   #10
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aj, some of the fucktards remove their wedding rings from their noses prior to a session.
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Old 03-16-2014, 10:29 AM   #11
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I just don't see the purpose for asking, other than to guilt us. If you have better reason let me know.
Probably for the same reason that guys ask the girls if their families know what they do.

Whatever that is.
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Old 03-16-2014, 11:41 AM   #12
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Probably for the same reason that guys ask the girls if their families know what they do.

Whatever that is.
Actually, I'll ask-and only ask-about the marriage (or whatever specific question they inquired of me) thing in response to me getting asked the above.

In my experience, it's the guys who are the ones asking the personal questions.
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Actually, I'll ask-and only ask-about the marriage (or whatever specific question they inquired of me) thing in response to me getting asked the above.

In my experience, it's the guys who are the ones asking the personal questions.
Ditto for the most part. Sometimes if it's wild bondage, roleplay, bdsm, or pse I'll ask if they have a SO so I know where do draw the lines and if I can leave marks. My 2 fav answers were"if my wife ever saw me naked I wouldn't be here in the first place" and "if you carved your name in my back she would just accuse me of attention seeking and laugh at me."
I agree with aj, keep it on so you don't lose it, I couldn't care less if you're married.
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Old 03-16-2014, 04:22 PM   #14
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In my experience, it's the guys who are the ones asking the personal questions.
I can believe that.
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Old 03-16-2014, 10:40 PM   #15
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What is the reason for and fascination with, whether we are married or not? I have yet to encounter a provider that has not asked if I am married. Does it make a difference? Will I get better service? Will you look at my ID and call home and ask my spouse what I like in bed?
I just don't see the purpose for asking, other than to guilt us. If you have better reason let me know.
While I don't particularly care (actually amused when guys take their rings off showing ring band tan) if he's married I think he's less likely to text his balls off or email like crazy before and/or after our date.
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