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KlassyKelliAnn · 04-01-2010, 07:36 PM

There should be a "How to respectfully Hobby 101" forum for men on here

AND

"A Gentlemen Test" added to gain Premium access.

:l aughbounce2:

Kelli Ann Preston

swwaustin · 04-02-2010, 06:25 AM

What good would a gentleman test do? Manners can be faked. True, a set of guideline 101 rules could help some hobbyists avoid the naive mistakes that are perceived as un-gentleman like, but I contend that most hobbyist who do not act as gentleman know full well how to, they just choose for whatever reason not to.

darkness · 04-02-2010, 06:47 AM

I agree most adults know fair from foul, right from wrong. perhaps its an ego/power boost, or maybe some leveling or settling the score mentally for some perceived injustice in the past, various reasons why some people " men and women" choose to treat each other badly.

Budman · 04-02-2010, 07:44 AM

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Originally Posted by KlassyKelliAnn

There should be a "How to respectfully Hobby 101" forum for men on here

AND

"A Gentlemen Test" added to gain Premium access.

Kelli Ann Preston

You must be kidding.

KlassyKelliAnn · 04-02-2010, 08:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Budman

You must be kidding.

......t'was pure sarcasm......

Kelli Ann

WetVelvetSAT · 04-02-2010, 04:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KlassyKelliAnn

There should be a "How to respectfully Hobby 101" forum for men on here

AND

"A Gentlemen Test" added to gain Premium access.

:l aughbounce2:

Kelli Ann Preston

Quote:

Originally Posted by KlassyKelliAnn

......t'was pure sarcasm......

Kelli Ann

No, I really don't think he was joking or being sarcastic!

Hi Ms K,

I do understand your post but I think things have changed over the years. Most hobbiest consider us to be TRUE SLUTs (no rubbers, next, next..etc..).....the problem is we have an influx of companions that allow the men to disrepect them so they can get some $ in their pocket or they are being p*mped.

And yes, the majority of men think we are "ho's" and want us to act like one!...ahehehehehe...most enjoy "dogging" out a companion because they are paying for that experience of S&M with them being the "S" in that scenario (even though most don't want to say it)....but believe me most of the ladies that are letting these men treat them that way will be in the mental hospital by the time they make it to 40, if they make it to 40!

Take it from one that has seen this happen in the past...there are a lot of companions that aren't around anymore because they wanted to impress all the "dogs" of the world. Pick and choose the ones that you treat like a VIP...you will be happier in the future!

Hang on to your morals and values....you will need them later in life!

Sincerely,
Wet

Budman · 04-02-2010, 06:12 PM

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Originally Posted by WetVelvetSAT

No, I really don't think he was joking or being sarcastic!

Hi Ms K,

I do understand your post but I think things have changed over the years. Most hobbiest consider us to be TRUE SLUTs (no rubbers, next, next..etc..).....the problem is we have an influx of companions that allow the men to disrepect them so they can get some $ in their pocket or they are being p*mped.

And yes, the majority of men think we are "ho's" and want us to act like one!...ahehehehehe...most enjoy "dogging" out a companion because they are paying for that experience of S&M with them being the "S" in that scenario (even though most don't want to say it)....but believe me most of the ladies that are letting these men treat them that way will be in the mental hospital by the time they make it to 40, if they make it to 40!

Take it from one that has seen this happen in the past...there are a lot of companions that aren't around anymore because they wanted to impress all the "dogs" of the world. Pick and choose the ones that you treat like a VIP...you will be happier in the future!

Hang on to your morals and values....you will need them later in life!

Sincerely,
Wet

If it is so tough Ms. Velvet why do you continue? Your post sounds alot like whining. Everybody has to deal with customers that suck but your statement that "most hobbyist consider you to be sluts" is a broad allegation. If most of your customers consider you to be a slut and mistreat you why do you continue?

WetVelvetSAT · 04-02-2010, 07:29 PM

Budman??

aheheheh...I guess I hit a soft spot...ahheheh....

As far as answering your question, I am not even going to go there. If you knew me, you would know why I choose to participate in this "fantasy world!"

Sincerely,
Wet

Budman · 04-02-2010, 07:42 PM

Velvet,
You didn't hit a soft spot as you put it. You were whining about how tough your job is and how most of your clients think you're a slut. I was merely asking why you continue providing if it is that bad?

WetVelvetSAT · 04-02-2010, 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Budman

Velvet,
You didn't hit a soft spot as you put it. You were whining about how tough your job is and how most of your clients think you're a slut. I was merely asking why you continue providing if it is that bad?

Hi,

I will answer you when I have more time to explain the fundamentals of this business I am in.....If I can keep another companion from being mistreated, then I will and I will speak the truth about this business. Why, because its not a game for everyone! I enjoy what I do but I had to the learn the hard way!

Sincerely,
Wet

am-a-pleaser · 04-02-2010, 10:36 PM

I like to treat all ladies with respect. I like to find out what they're in the mood for. It can change depending on so many factors. I had a gf that loved romance at times, playful teasing other times, lustful animalistic passionate action other times. We were well matched. At times we made love, other times we f**ked each other's brains out.

Wet,

I enjoy meeting ladies and showing them a great time. For me, if they enjoy themselves, I have a more fulfilling time. I'm not pushy, and my approach has resullted in ladies allowing themselves to try try things they rarely (or never) allow. (At least that's what they tell me, and it's not on their menu, so I believe them.) That makes me feel good.

I guess everyone in this hobby has their own ideas. To each their own.

WetVelvetSAT · 04-02-2010, 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by am-a-pleaser

I like to treat all ladies with respect. I like to find out what they're in the mood for. It can change depending on so many factors. I had a gf that loved romance at times, playful teasing other times, lustful animalistic passionate action other times. We were well matched. At times we made love, other times we f**ked each other's brains out.

Wet,

I enjoy meeting ladies and showing them a great time. For me, if they enjoy themselves, I have a more fulfilling time. I'm not pushy, and my approach has resullted in ladies allowing themselves to try try things they rarely (or never) allow. (At least that's what they tell me, and it's not on their menu, so I believe them.) That makes me feel good.

I guess everyone in this hobby has their own ideas. To each their own.

Hi am-a-pleaser, (I love your id!)

It's men such as yourself that make me and other ladies continue to enjoy being in the business!

I didn't mean to insinuate all men are that way, if some of you took it that way sorry! I was just trying to explain to Ms K you can't see everyone that contacts you and to have a forum to teach the ones that don't know how to be a gentlemen be a gentlemen is useless!

Plain and simple!

Sincerely,
Wet

am-a-pleaser · 04-02-2010, 11:21 PM

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Originally Posted by WetVelvetSAT

Hi am-a-pleaser, (I love your id!)

It's men such as yourself that make me and other ladies continue to enjoy being in the business!

Thank you.

Your comments are very helpful---for the ladies and the guys. That's what these forums are about. We're all in this to help each other. The guys that want "sl*t" action can discuss their desires in providers, and those wanting something else have their opportunities.

As a hobbiest, I enjoy your advice to others. I like you.

shooter1a · 04-03-2010, 06:50 AM

Wet,
Well said my lady.
Your comment might be the marching cry for the hobby.
"Hang on to your morals and values....you will need them later in life! "

guest092513 · 04-03-2010, 11:22 AM

Ok I know I am not the worlds greatest lover, but I will have to say the ladies I have seen geniunely seem to enjoy the session as much as I do. I think that comes from being respectful and mindful of their needs as well. I know they are there to " service" us, but that doesnt mean that you have to treat them like shit. I guess there are men that want to let out their "closet deviant" and that is why some act the way they do. We pay for time not for "acts" I have found out the actions are so much more fun, for both parties when you treat the lady like a lady