Screening protocol

[TideLWave]

To the more seasoned guys here, do you typically give your real name and work information to ladies when they screen you? I have enjoyed this hobby for years but most of my playing has been out of state with very established ladies that I felt fairly comfortable giving my name to. I have only had one bad experience with someone I gave my name to. But I'm not real comfortable giving my name and work information to people in my home town. Does P411 allow the company to screen you so that the ladies will accept their verification? What is the best way to go about this? Any help will be appreciated. I would like to venture out more but I'm not sure the best way to do it.

This is a great site. Thank you all for the helpful information. I hope to contribute soon.

[stanky]

My personal recommendation is don't give that info to anyone. Stay on a first name basis only until you are very, very comfortable (if ever).

[bladtinzu]

Originally Posted by TideLWave

To the more seasoned guys here, do you typically give your real name and work information to ladies when they screen you? I have enjoyed this hobby for years but most of my playing has been out of state with very established ladies that I felt fairly comfortable giving my name to. I have only had one bad experience with someone I gave my name to. But I'm not real comfortable giving my name and work information to people in my home town. Does P411 allow the company to screen you so that the ladies will accept their verification? What is the best way to go about this? Any help will be appreciated. I would like to venture out more but I'm not sure the best way to do it.

This is a great site. Thank you all for the helpful information. I hope to contribute soon.

Never have nor never will. P411 works good for me. Just make sure you do not use the same username you use on eccie or any other site. Makes it eaiser to see women you might piss off and will never know you by another screenname

[jwin]

[janelle4you]

I recommend getting p411 verified. It is my favorite, along with alot of other provider's favorite screening site.

[Guest032514-1]

Depends really.

If you have current solid references - you should be able to move along without too much personal detail. You may think you have current solid refs, I may think you don't. Guess who's thinking I'm gonna use?

Location of your refs should not be an issue. I get that alot "Yes, I have refs but they are from out of town." It always feels like bs to me. I have a phone, email, know how to write a letter....etc.

If you are looking to start playing in your backyard; look around. There is a "golden ticket" provider there. One who's reference every other local provider will take. Who is she?

You may have to give your name etc once, maybe twice locally. After that you'll be ok.

[coven]

Originally Posted by babee

If you are looking to start playing in your backyard; look around. There is a "golden ticket" provider there. One who's reference every other local provider will take. Who is she?

I can think of several. Good to see you posting again, Babee.

[JDNorthface]

Originally Posted by stanky

My personal recommendation is don't give that info to anyone. Stay on a first name basis only until you are very, very comfortable (if ever).

My personal recommendation to the OP is to listen to Stanky's personal recommendation.

[Falcon58]

p411 has worked well for me in the past

[bladtinzu]

And remember if they ask for a picture of your ID before hand send them this..

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