Why do clients and providers care so much about drama on Eccie board?

[galaxon00]

Why do clients and providers put so much time into caring about the drama outside the simple act of making appointments? I thought this board was about one primary thing... money and sex and facilitating arrangements involving that. But unless you are dealing with a person who uses the board for just that, you have to deal with and wade through a lot of excess baggage drama people involve themselves in; just to try to make appointments. It creates a toxic environment either between client/provider, provider/provider, or client/client that's so counterproductive and many times appointments don't happen because of all the noise and chatter outside the simple act of making those arrangements. I guess I'm asking why do people let that stuff get to them? All the drama it's virtual reality he said/she said, it's not even real until it can be backed up by something in real life so I don't know why people get so sucked into it and let the main purpose of the board get destroyed in the process. Exchanging sex and money is a business relationship right? Why do some people on here let the drama effect them personally at the expense of enjoying hobbying?

[BiancaBonVivant]

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by galaxon00

Why do clients and providers put so much time into caring about the drama outside the simple act of making appointments? I thought this board was about one primary thing... money and sex and facilitating arrangements involving that. But unless you are dealing with a person who uses the board for just that, you have to deal with and wade through a lot of excess baggage drama people involve themselves in; just to try to make appointments. It creates a toxic environment either between client/provider, provider/provider, or client/client that's so counterproductive and many times appointments don't happen because of all the noise and chatter outside the simple act of making those arrangements. I guess I'm asking why do people let that stuff get to them? All the drama it's virtual reality he said/she said, it's not even real until it can be backed up by something in real life so I don't know why people get so sucked into it and let the main purpose of the board get destroyed in the process. Exchanging sex and money is a business relationship right? Why do some people on here let the drama effect them personally at the expense of enjoying hobbying?

You should avoid coed if your sensibilities are that fragile, just sayin'

You make some very broad assumptions then portray them as facts...

I am as caught up in the drama as anyone and I have NO problem seeing anyone I've ever wanted to see. (Although one it took some time as she needed to see if I was going to make her a topic of a ToYz story or poll-to date she has remained anonymous per her wishes).

Point is coed is for entertainment mostly. If all you want to do is schedule Hoogars, then avoid this forum like the plague.

It's a choice you can make...be strong/don't click.

[ElisabethWhispers]

Originally Posted by galaxon00

Why do clients and providers put so much time into caring about the drama outside the simple act of making appointments?...

Why do some people on here let the drama effect them personally at the expense of enjoying hobbying?

I never started out enjoying the drama. And often, I don't like seeing it at all. Sometimes, it's a lot of fun to read and sometimes, participate in. (Shame on me, right?)

But this type of world can be exceptionally personal. Giving of oneself, for whatever reason, is an emotional endeavor.

Although I see dramatics on all different types of boards, I see it more frequently (and with a lot more ugliness) on boards that deal with sexuality and the world's oldest profession.

I'm sure a lot of the negativity also comes from the mixed signals that everyone gives out about this world. The women are filth but we wish to give them our hard earned funds and fuck them.

We love you. You hate us. You love us. You hate everyone else. I love my four legged creatures but often, the two legged ones will cause me a lot of angst. He is great. That one is stinky. She didn't like me. She liked me too much.

All of us can go on and on. It's the human condition.

And you ask why? Surely you know the answer to your question as well as anyone else reading it does.

Best,
Elisabeth

[Raikage]

BOREDOM, PEOPLE ARE BORED. WE WAKE UP BORED, WE GO TO WORK BORED, WE COME HOME FROM OUR BORING JOBS AND STAY HOME BORED.

if you can do something to get snapped out of that boredom and feel alive ... no matter how negative it is ... you will do it and enjoy it.

[ElisabethWhispers]

Originally Posted by Raikage

BOREDOM, PEOPLE ARE BORED. WE WAKE UP BORED, WE GO TO WORK BORED, WE COME HOME FROM OUR BORING JOBS AND STAY HOME BORED.

if you can do something to get snapped out of that boredom and feel alive ... no matter how negative it is ... you will do it and enjoy it.

Yes! This, too!

[fun2come]

JADEd....

[moonshiner]

Take a Midol, things will get better.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by galaxon00

Why do clients and providers put so much time into caring about the drama outside the simple act of making appointments?

How does drama here on the board get in the way of trying to make an appointment Jade?

I thought this board was about one primary thing... money and sex and facilitating arrangements

That's 3 things Jade

involving that. But unless you are dealing with a person who uses the board for just that, you have to deal with and wade through a lot of excess baggage drama people involve themselves in; just to try to make appointments.

Once again how? Ads are in the ad section and reviews in the review section and both can be read with no involvement in drama. Now if you are saying Jade is too involved in the drama to pay you any attention I can understand that. Wait... Aren't YOU Jade?

It creates a toxic environment either between client/provider, provider/provider, or client/client that's so counterproductive and many times appointments don't happen because of all the noise and chatter outside the simple act of making those arrangements.

explain that to us Jade.... Please....I know Drama has led to your ban and probably a downtick in business but you had so many other revenue streams I hardly believe it matters....

I guess I'm asking why do people let that stuff get to them?

I don't know Jade. I enjoy reading and viewing a little drama... But it doesn't get in the way of business where I am concerned.

All the drama it's virtual reality he said/she said, it's not even real until it can be backed up by something in real life so I don't know why people get so sucked into it and let the main purpose of the board get destroyed in the process.

How again is that happening? reviews keep coming. Ads keep getting posted..... I think you forget that CoEd participation is a tiny fraction of what is going on....

Exchanging sex and money is a business relationship right?

Yup.

Why do some people on here let the drama effect them personally at the expense of enjoying hobbying?

The ones that are letting it affect them personally aren't hobbying. They don't have the cash or clientele and are here in CoEd looking for someone to pay them attention.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by moonshiner

Take a Midol, things will get better.

[RetiredNinja]

[ztonk]

Originally Posted by galaxon00

Why do some people on here let the drama effect(sic) them personally at the expense of enjoying hobbying?

That would be the question I'd want you to answer. Why are you letting the JadeRose drama affect you? You're doing as much to damage her reputation by vehemently defending her as her detractors are...

z

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by ztonk

You're doing as much to damage her reputation by vehemently defending her as her detractors are...

That's a little harsh...... Her rep has already been dragged through the crap pretty effectively at levels not achieved here on ECCIE......

[rocker]

They have no life.

[BiancaBonVivant]

Originally Posted by ztonk

That would be the question I'd want you to answer. Why are you letting the JadeRose drama affect you? You're doing as much to damage her reputation by vehemently defending her as her detractors are...

z

I'm sure no matter your opinion on Jade, you can see she is exercising good judgment by not talking to this guy any more. He's lost his first love, and now he's reeling and trying to take everybody down because she dropped him. Good for her.