Get P411 or a couple of provider references, but NEVER share your personal information. I saw this posted on another board as a reason:
Go to Providerbuzz.com. This a a very valuable site for us girls to "out" dangerous (and even irritating and annoying) clients. You'll be very surprised at what you see! They have to 100% verify your status as a provider, but it's a great site. And it's free. And you can list full names, addrersses, and phone numbers-uncensored!
Now, I am assuming you guys are not abusive. But think what could happen if you simply pissed off the wrong person. After all, posting the information is not contingent upon evidence other than the provider's statement.
It is simply not worth it to give out any personal information. If you have to, make up a story about yourself. And get a hobby phone!