It is with great disappointment I must officially announce that I....

[BBWDeAnna]

It is with great disappointment that I must officially announce that I am sorry! I am sorry to the hobbyist who have contacted me in regards to a date and were met with attitude from me. I am sorry to the hobbyist that have contacted me and provided references but do to certain things i still refused the date. I am sorry to the NUMEROUS guys in NWA who inquire daily about me visiting the area and I continue to refuse.

Last nite I almost missed out on meeting a super nice, polite, generous and fun guy all due to the low brow, unprofessional and down right cock blocking childish behavior of PROVIDERS simply not giving references!!! I put in a little extra effort(unusual for me) and got him screened and we had a blast. But this bullshit has to end. I won't name names as im not here to gossip and be friends with this cliq and not this cliq blah blah blah..this isn't high school this is a professional J.O.B with professional clients(for the most part) who should come to expect more from the providers they are spending money with. To be blunt these ladies are FUCKING YOU GUYS OVER and not in a good way. You are spending hard earned money on them with expectations they won't block your future fun and that is exactly what they are attempting to do.

LET ME STATE: THIS IS NOT A THREAD WHERE LADIES NEED TO COME AND PROFESS THEIR OPENNESS TO GIVE REFERENCE and piggy back off my thread in an attempt to make yourself look good..because when you do I will name names.

There have been a few..very few that have responded promptly and very nice to vouches. Those ladies know who they are. I am still waiting on 6..yes 6 references from ladies that have read the PM's and are active on the boards as we speak. 3 are from the same lady. Amazingly 1 of the of the hobbyiest who used her as a reference reviewed her after canceling on me the same day well played provider..well played.

Guys- I realize some of you are constant WK's..your lap dogs to these providers. I guess i don't get your need to not only pay for pussy but then kiss the hired helps ass on top of it..its not attractive and I venture to say that if you would put that much effort into your marriage you wouldn't be here to begin with..thats just me tho(edited to add, my issue is not with married men who hobby..my issue is with married men who hobby then feel the need to put so much work into impressing providers..work that hard at your marriage)..i can't stand and have no use for WK lap dogs. But to the guys that are NOT and that truly do try to see a variety of ladies i encourage you to speak with your money as providers can only behave when they are enabled to behave a certain way. I am appalled and embarrassed to have to calm and put at ease some hobbyiest who show up with I.D in hand(i do appreciate the effort the guys put in to making me comfortable showing how bad they wanna see me though)..with letter heads from their company..amongst other things..to which with a baffled look i state..i don't wanna fucking see that. We have a good laugh and get down to fucking. Guys realize that you are the client, the customer, you should control the show. You dictate how the people wanting your money act, you can influence who is a success and who must leave. You are met with difficulty and often intrusive screening because ladies you have given money to and expect a vouch from are simply being dirty and refusing, forcing you back to them as what you perceive the "only option" to you. it's well played by broke, greedy and ghetto providers who are desperate for money, but it leaves guys feeling like other girls are just being hard asses for no reason.

There are a few things that are expected in this world and 1 of those is that providers NO MATTER WHAT and no matter to who, vouch for the client who paid them. It doesn't matter if you hate the girl, it doesn't matter if she is your arch enemy. it doesn't matter if she calls you names, insults you etc. It is the CLIENT..your paying customer..that you are helping by doing this. It makes you look pathetic and is completely unprofessional. At the end of the day i guess im odd, I don't hang out, i don't socialize, chit chat, gossip or otherwise interact with any provider here. never have..never will. I do off and on share a friendly conversation with 1 lady who also isn't wrapped up in this being her life but thats it. I point that out to say this, its when you allow this world to become your life, and when you allow what hobbyist think of you and how much the wk's blow smoke up your ass and how being here makes you feel like somebody..its when that happens that your decision making becomes cloudy and your behavior becomes unprofessional. It's not hard to say yes i saw xyz and he is ok. If you are so popular and so in demand you shouldn't care anyways. But the fact is 99% of the ladies here aren't. They struggle hence the constant look at me threADS..The constant "i got new pics" post. The girls that are busy you don't find in coed trying to drum up biz. the post ads, they travel, they stay busy!! These ladies that struggle even send out PM'S to their wk's and their providers in their cliqs with a plan to get attention and encourage them to jump in the thread and post. The stories I hear and the things I see that truly baffle me..if you only knew.

My point to this long ass diatribe...Be careful who you spend money with, if you truly are here for variety then make sure the lady will vouch for you in the future because some very well known, well reviewed ladies are doing right the opposite to you lovely horny gents. My life and finances do not depend on success here..I am NOT nor have I ever been BP girl..I only since 2002 advertised on major boards and my reviews on those major boards would put current claims of our local ladies to shame. oh..and it wasn't just all small towns....I have witnessed since 2002 providers come and go, hobbyist come and go, i have watched the crash or closure of aspd, eraps, escorts.com, bigdoggie and more. I have watched my home state cascade into a disarray and disfunctional assortment of unprofessional hobbyiest and providers. I have watched as good people leave or go utr and the trash never seems to be taken out. I realize many guys here don't travel for work therefor your hands are tied..but you need to open your eyes to how you are being treated by the people you are paying.

I dislike screening, i find it tedious, i find it boring, i find it intrusive and I find it a task that I hate to partake in...unfortunately the state of the arkansas hobby scene has made me more on edge then any other state in all my years..and I have been thru the downfall of okc/tulsa, houston raids, shreveport/texarkana stalker, dirty mods, raids in SA, i was here 4 years before even the most popular providers(their claims) showed up. I was here when providers were busted, when they change names, when they "wanna help" other providers only to help them crash and burn.. But never in my life have I witnessed PROVIDERS fuck up their own area..this is a first so congrats on that. But I always preferred and felt like I was here to have fun, I find it fun, I like to fuck and I hate having to be so tough on guys contacting me, but its whats been created via what you have allowed the ladies to do to you and other providers.

My hobby experience will go on..I have been so damn busy its crazy. I have toured tulsa, memphis, austin, htown, and more with limited to NO ads..I have also turned down invites to LR, NWA, NEA and more..all because i don't have the desire to deal with the hassles of screening and reference checks. It sucks because I suspect I am missing out on providing to a bunch of great horny kinky guys..and thats disappointing, but nature of the scene right now. I love what I do, always have, you never find me in the ladies only section bitching or dawging clients. I use the resources available to stay safe and find out who is who. you won't find me insulting men who do business with me behind the scenes. You find me discussing this post or any board stuff when we meet. meetings are about fucking and sucking not about drama. I don't see men to gain wk's, I don't see men to boost review counts(remember people majority of guys don't even review), I don't offer stuff for reviews. I don't block other women I always encourage a guy who i don't think im a good fit for to seek other ladies available. I will never see a guy who I can't match his needs just for the money. I am here because i want to be not because I have to be. So I say again, please don't mistake me for the rest..its all about fucking and sucking the board is just a means to the end..its about exchanging info..its about giving ladies a place to advertise and gents a place to brag of their conquest..somewhere along the way that got lost

So i state again, i am sorry to the guys that have tried spending money on me. unfortunately your references are blocking you, couple that with often your limited board presence or your tendancy to wk for those references and it makes me hesitate to see you. To the guys who are obviously fishing for info and refuse to follow protocal and spend their time asking about BBFS and pics/vids..get over it..get over yourself..don't mistake me for the rest..I have way more experience and longevity than any provider on the arkansas forum..i have seen it all and heard it all..I don't care how sexy you think you are, how good at sex you think you are, or how much you think i will like hanging out with you. I don't hang out..i fuck..if i wanna hang out i go home..

RANT OVER..for now..but sorry again guys..im sure some providers will be up in arms over this and thats fine..i stand behind what I say, and this isn't a thread for you to proclaim your readiness to vouch for clients and promote yourself. This is a reminder to guys its time to change the attitude around here and for the guys with cash to take back their board..take back their environment and make it about them again..its time they make the arkansas board a place where good info is exchanged, wk's are shunned, providers are forced to be professional and a state where the best traveling/touring ladies in the country want to come..because right now..its a glorified BACKPAGE SHITHOLE.

[BabyDallass]

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[BBWDeAnna]

Thats 1..now make sure you pm the rest of the cliq so they join in too..it only proves my point

Originally Posted by BabyDallass

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[Iridemhard]

I love you baby dallas! Please marry me!!

[BabyDallass]

Lol you my dear have never asked me for a reference...don't flatter yourself...

[Mssppislm]

Originally Posted by BBWDeAnna

It is with great disappointment that I must officially announce that I am sorry! I am sorry to the hobbyist who have contacted me in regards to a date and were met with attitude from me. I am sorry to the hobbyist that have contacted me and provided references but do to certain things i still refused the date. I am sorry to the NUMEROUS guys in NWA who inquire daily about me visiting the area and I continue to refuse.

Last nite I almost missed out on meeting a super nice, polite, generous and fun guy all due to the low brow, unprofessional and down right cock blocking childish behavior of PROVIDERS simply not giving references!!! I put in a little extra effort(unusual for me) and got him screened and we had a blast. But this bullshit has to end. I won't name names as im not here to gossip and be friends with this cliq and not this cliq blah blah blah..this isn't high school this is a professional J.O.B with professional clients(for the most part) who should come to expect more from the providers they are spending money with. To be blunt these ladies are FUCKING YOU GUYS OVER and not in a good way. You are spending hard earned money on them with expectations they won't block your future fun and that is exactly what they are attempting to do.

LET ME STATE: THIS IS NOT A THREAD WHERE LADIES NEED TO COME AND PROFESS THEIR OPENNESS TO GIVE REFERENCE and piggy back off my thread in an attempt to make yourself look good..because when you do I will name names.

There have been a few..very few that have responded promptly and very nice to vouches. Those ladies know who they are. I am still waiting on 6..yes 6 references from ladies that have read the PM's and are active on the boards as we speak. 3 are from the same lady. Amazingly 1 of the of the hobbyiest who used her as a reference reviewed her after canceling on me the same day well played provider..well played.

Guys- I realize some of you are constant WK's..your lap dogs to these providers. I guess i don't get your need to not only pay for pussy but then kiss the hired helps ass on top of it..its not attractive and I venture to say that if you would put that much effort into your marriage you wouldn't be here to begin with..thats just me tho(edited to add, my issue is not with married men who hobby..my issue is with married men who hobby then feel the need to put so much work into impressing providers..work that hard at your marriage)..i can't stand and have no use for WK lap dogs. But to the guys that are NOT and that truly do try to see a variety of ladies i encourage you to speak with your money as providers can only behave when they are enabled to behave a certain way. I am appalled and embarrassed to have to calm and put at ease some hobbyiest who show up with I.D in hand(i do appreciate the effort the guys put in to making me comfortable showing how bad they wanna see me though)..with letter heads from their company..amongst other things..to which with a baffled look i state..i don't wanna fucking see that. We have a good laugh and get down to fucking. Guys realize that you are the client, the customer, you should control the show. You dictate how the people wanting your money act, you can influence who is a success and who must leave. You are met with difficulty and often intrusive screening because ladies you have given money to and expect a vouch from are simply being dirty and refusing, forcing you back to them as what you perceive the "only option" to you. it's well played by broke, greedy and ghetto providers who are desperate for money, but it leaves guys feeling like other girls are just being hard asses for no reason.

There are a few things that are expected in this world and 1 of those is that providers NO MATTER WHAT and no matter to who, vouch for the client who paid them. It doesn't matter if you hate the girl, it doesn't matter if she is your arch enemy. it doesn't matter if she calls you names, insults you etc. It is the CLIENT..your paying customer..that you are helping by doing this. It makes you look pathetic and is completely unprofessional. At the end of the day i guess im odd, I don't hang out, i don't socialize, chit chat, gossip or otherwise interact with any provider here. never have..never will. I do off and on share a friendly conversation with 1 lady who also isn't wrapped up in this being her life but thats it. I point that out to say this, its when you allow this world to become your life, and when you allow what hobbyist think of you and how much the wk's blow smoke up your ass and how being here makes you feel like somebody..its when that happens that your decision making becomes cloudy and your behavior becomes unprofessional. It's not hard to say yes i saw xyz and he is ok. If you are so popular and so in demand you shouldn't care anyways. But the fact is 99% of the ladies here aren't. They struggle hence the constant look at me threADS..The constant "i got new pics" post. The girls that are busy you don't find in coed trying to drum up biz. the post ads, they travel, they stay busy!! These ladies that struggle even send out PM'S to their wk's and their providers in their cliqs with a plan to get attention and encourage them to jump in the thread and post. The stories I hear and the things I see that truly baffle me..if you only knew.

My point to this long ass diatribe...Be careful who you spend money with, if you truly are here for variety then make sure the lady will vouch for you in the future because some very well known, well reviewed ladies are doing right the opposite to you lovely horny gents. My life and finances do not depend on success here..I am NOT nor have I ever been BP girl..I only since 2002 advertised on major boards and my reviews on those major boards would put current claims of our local ladies to shame. oh..and it wasn't just all small towns....I have witnessed since 2002 providers come and go, hobbyist come and go, i have watched the crash or closure of aspd, eraps, escorts.com, bigdoggie and more. I have watched my home state cascade into a disarray and disfunctional assortment of unprofessional hobbyiest and providers. I have watched as good people leave or go utr and the trash never seems to be taken out. I realize many guys here don't travel for work therefor your hands are tied..but you need to open your eyes to how you are being treated by the people you are paying.

I dislike screening, i find it tedious, i find it boring, i find it intrusive and I find it a task that I hate to partake in...unfortunately the state of the arkansas hobby scene has made me more on edge then any other state in all my years..and I have been thru the downfall of okc/tulsa, houston raids, shreveport/texarkana stalker, dirty mods, raids in SA, i was here 4 years before even the most popular providers(their claims) showed up. I was here when providers were busted, when they change names, when they "wanna help" other providers only to help them crash and burn.. But never in my life have I witnessed PROVIDERS fuck up their own area..this is a first so congrats on that. But I always preferred and felt like I was here to have fun, I find it fun, I like to fuck and I hate having to be so tough on guys contacting me, but its whats been created via what you have allowed the ladies to do to you and other providers.

My hobby experience will go on..I have been so damn busy its crazy. I have toured tulsa, memphis, austin, htown, and more with limited to NO ads..I have also turned down invites to LR, NWA, NEA and more..all because i don't have the desire to deal with the hassles of screening and reference checks. It sucks because I suspect I am missing out on providing to a bunch of great horny kinky guys..and thats disappointing, but nature of the scene right now. I love what I do, always have, you never find me in the ladies only section bitching or dawging clients. I use the resources available to stay safe and find out who is who. you won't find me insulting men who do business with me behind the scenes. You find me discussing this post or any board stuff when we meet. meetings are about fucking and sucking not about drama. I don't see men to gain wk's, I don't see men to boost review counts(remember people majority of guys don't even review), I don't offer stuff for reviews. I don't block other women I always encourage a guy who i don't think im a good fit for to seek other ladies available. I will never see a guy who I can't match his needs just for the money. I am here because i want to be not because I have to be. So I say again, please don't mistake me for the rest..its all about fucking and sucking the board is just a means to the end..its about exchanging info..its about giving ladies a place to advertise and gents a place to brag of their conquest..somewhere along the way that got lost

So i state again, i am sorry to the guys that have tried spending money on me. unfortunately your references are blocking you, couple that with often your limited board presence or your tendancy to wk for those references and it makes me hesitate to see you. To the guys who are obviously fishing for info and refuse to follow protocal and spend their time asking about BBFS and pics/vids..get over it..get over yourself..don't mistake me for the rest..I have way more experience and longevity than any provider on the arkansas forum..i have seen it all and heard it all..I don't care how sexy you think you are, how good at sex you think you are, or how much you think i will like hanging out with you. I don't hang out..i fuck..if i wanna hang out i go home..

RANT OVER..for now..but sorry again guys..im sure some providers will be up in arms over this and thats fine..i stand behind what I say, and this isn't a thread for you to proclaim your readiness to vouch for clients and promote yourself. This is a reminder to guys its time to change the attitude around here and for the guys with cash to take back their board..take back their environment and make it about them again..its time they make the arkansas board a place where good info is exchanged, wk's are shunned, providers are forced to be professional and a state where the best traveling/touring ladies in the country want to come..because right now..its a glorified BACKPAGE SHITHOLE.

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[BBWDeAnna]

first..i would care what you have to say..if for starters you could be a good girl and actually step up and suck a bare cock every once in awhile (i know i know you get paid soooo damn good not to..insert threAD)..DON'T FLATTER yourself because some lap dogs like to lick at your rubber sucking mouth..question..do you use mints or do you like to walk around with a mouth smelling like a used tire?

that said..My post of "thats 1" was in reference to how ladies and their WK lapdogs like to "gather together" to shit on a post they don't like or is afraid is about them. if i wanted to mention you i would. but for once dear SOMETHING isn't about you and that includes this post. I wouldn't ask you for a reference and HAVE refused guys that used you..how is that for honesty. and I suspect you would do the same to me and other girls you don't like..its cool but its my right to not see a guy if I don't trust his references..that doesn't mean you wouldn't eagerly give me a reference if i contacted you..I know you adamantly proclaim you give references to anyone so lets just take that as fact for now

with that said..I say again, its not about outting any 1 girl..its about guys taking their board back and making it a great place again. its about the OVERALL state of the board because if ladies are not responding to me..im pretty sure they don't to others...its a big picture post..not about just me..i know thats hard to understand.

Originally Posted by BabyDallass

Lol you my dear have never asked me for a reference...don't flatter yourself...

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by BBWDeAnna

Thats 1..now make sure you pm the rest of the cliq so they join in too..it only proves my point

Providers don't have to give references & if that is the only form of screening you use that's a personal problem not the whore whom you want to give you a yaay or naay...

[Danielle Reid]

Guys need to take back their board? This board is already a man's world. We as providers have little rights here. But please, take back the board men. Make America great again

[Danielle Reid]

I don't trust references 100%. There's only a few providers who I trust to give a solid reference. Did you know one lady's gold mind is another lady's hell? I saw a guy in NWA that attempted to force himself inside me without a condom. Funny thing is, he didn't try that with any other lady after me.

So I could get a great reference for a John but he turns out to be a fucking asshole. Once you learn how to control YOUR business without the help of other people, that's when you truly become a great hooker. Until then, you're just another whiny bitch that's upset because no one will return a text

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by BBWDeAnna

first..i would care what you have to say..if for starters you could be a good girl and actually step up and suck a bare cock every once in awhile (i know i know you get paid soooo damn good not to..insert threAD)..DON'T FLATTER yourself because some lap dogs like to lick at your rubber sucking mouth..question..do you use mints or do you like to walk around with a mouth smelling like a used tire?

that said..My post of "thats 1" was in reference to how ladies like to "gather together" to shit on a post they don't like or is afraid is about them. if i wanted to mention you i would. but for once dear SOMETHING isn't about you and that includes this post. I wouldn't ask you for a reference and HAVE refused guys that used you..how is that for honesty. and I suspect you would do the same to me and other girls you don't like..its cool but its my right to not see a guy if I don't trust his references..that doesn't mean you wouldn't eagerly give me a reference if i contacted you..I know you adamantly proclaim you give references to anyone so lets just take that as fact for now

with that said..I say again, its not about outting any 1 girl..its about guys taking their board back and making it a great place again. its about the OVERALL state of the board because if ladies are not responding to me..im pretty sure they don't to others...its a big picture post..not about just me..i know thats hard to understand.

You claim to be professional but your not acting like one..

Every WHORE has a choice..

Choice To Do BBBJ
Choice To Do CBJ
Choice To Do BBFS
Choice To Do CFS
Choice To Eat The Booty Like Groceries
Choice To Give References
Choice To Screen

If you're going to make a post & let garbage spew out your whore mouth at least call them whores out instead of being scared...

For The Love Of Yeezus Remember A Whore Giving Another Whore A Reference Is A Privilege.... Stop Whining It's Not Going To Help..

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

Guys need to take back their board? This board is already a man's world. We as providers have little rights here. But please, take back the board men. Make America great again

In Yeezus Name Amen

[Danielle Reid]

Oh and for the record, I give references even to ladies that act like children. If I do not answer it's because
A) I'm sleeping (I sleep a lot)
B) I'm sucking dick (men don't like it when you text and suck)
C) I'm on the back of a motorcycle and I refuse to drop my phone at 100mph

I will, however, respond once I get a chance and will try to respond quickly. But if you just say "John said you saw him" with ZERO contact information, I will get pissy because you are now taking time out of my day to search for this man.

Reference requests must include NAME, ECCIE HANDLE (if available), PHONE and/or EMAIL. it will make my job easier to find said guy and see if we even had a date.

Oh and if I give a guy on P411 an OKAY...DO NOT FUCKING ASK ME IF HES OKAY. The system is set up so you don't need to spam my inbox with the same question I answered publicly of a client.

[Danielle Reid]

I would like to thank you though, OP. This board needed a little more drama. Looks like it was your turn to shine

[BBWDeAnna]

In the spirit of change..and I mean this sincerely because I have heard this argument since 2002 on the the boards..

What rights would providers need? other than being able to place ads and gain business?

Lets keep in mind that providers OFTEN not always ask for and get, guys names, employer info, they ask for references thus knowing who the guy has fucked and seen. Guys are often..NOT BY YOU PERHAPS ask to show I.D etc etc etc.

With that on the table..what changes need to be made to make providers have more rights? and what rights do we need that we currently don't have? as a BUSINESS seeking paying customers

humbly submitted for your rebutal

Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

Guys need to take back their board? This board is already a man's world. We as providers have little rights here. But please, take back the board men. Make America great again