Color does it make a difference?

[stloug]

I have looked through all the BP ads and I notice that a lot them state no African American men. I am a dark skinned Mexican. My question is to the providers would you consider me to be a African American and would you see me?

Second part of question: I am older, over 63, but I do still like to feel of a women. My diabetes prevents me from getting all the way there even with the little blue pill. Again to the providers would you consider seeing me or others like me?

Thanks and MERRY CHRISTMAS.

[MWCompanions]

I would not consider you AA. Some girls are super picky though. It is best to just ask. Everyone has their personal preferences for different reasons.

Personally, to me it is just a skin pigment. I am more concerned about how people treat me.

My best advice would to just be honest about everything. There are plenty of wonderful ladies in St Louis who would be more than happy to spend time with you.

Good luck!

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by stloug

Second part of question: I am older, over 63, but I do still like to feel of a women. My diabetes prevents me from getting all the way there even with the little blue pill. Again to the providers would you consider seeing me or others like me?

I share your problem, and I can tell you from firsthand experience: I've never found that to be an issue.

Because of my problem, I am a bit "picky" about the level of service I'm looking for: e.g., if a lady's reviews indicate that she's not going to kiss (at least LFK, preferably DFK) and that she doesn't allow DATY, she isn't going to get a visit from me. Your requirements may be different. Read reviews carefully, and go for a lady who you find both physically attractive and who provides the kind of experience you're looking for, and you'll do just fine.

Cheers,

bcg

[PleasantSurprise]

Originally Posted by stloug

Second part of question: I am older, over 63, but I do still like to feel of a women. My diabetes prevents me from getting all the way there even with the little blue pill. Again to the providers would you consider seeing me or others like me?

I would recommend creating a profile on another site and adding some details you might want a lady to know in advance.

Some ladies, who don't know your situation, might take it personal and feel like they are doing something wrong. You might meet a lady and really like her, and she might decline repeat visits because she feels incapable of getting you to a certain point. Feeling inadequate could easily cause a lady to give up and not try a second time. Even if she does try a second time, if she still doesn't know, she may feel like she's failed yet again. Feeling not good enough, not skilled enough, not attractive enough, etc. Being upfront is the best advice I could give.

At the same time, some ladies may think you're crossing a boundary by making comments which could appear vulgar/explicit, which is why I think creating a profile to where the lady could read more about you would be the best way to go.

[classychoice69]

Some ladies, Would see you if you are a true gentlemen. We don't care about the other issues. there are other ways around that..

best of luck ..

[DallasRain]

I would love to see you----personality & being a gentleman are priority!

[Monica13]

Those are just minor issues and personally i would see you,

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

I would love to see you----personality & being a gentleman are priority!

Though I can testify that while these are priorities, neither is absolutely required. Dallas has seen me, and I have a repellent personality and nobody would call me a gentleman.



Cheers,

bcg