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angelablaze · 01-22-2013, 08:36 AM

Do any of you guys have an issue with being stood up? I have on two occasions been stood up by the same provider. I call her and schedule an appt time the day prior then I call her before I leave my home to get a general idea where she will be at. 5 minutes prior to being at the location I usually give her a heads up and up until this point she always awnsers my calls until I actually show up to the parking lot. Is this a common practice?

bigtonydallas · 01-22-2013, 09:35 AM

NEVER BEEN STOOD UP AT THE LAST SECOND.

Guest070213 · 01-22-2013, 09:44 AM

I have never rescheduled with any provider that has NCNS. Although I have only had maybe two NCNS in my few years in the hobby. If a provider were to cancel with plenty of notice then I might go back but that has never happened to me.

Had a NCNS happen to me on Saturday and will not go back even though she is exactly in my demographic. Luckily plan B was available on short notice.

Luthasis · 01-22-2013, 03:32 PM

Yes, being "stood up," unfortunately is apart of the hobby. Always have several girls on backup in case you have a bad run of no answers, voicemailers, and promisers. Don't take it personal. Sometimes events happen that's totally out of the providers control.

Solemate62 · 01-22-2013, 05:23 PM

I guess the question in my mind: Why give a girl a SECOND chance to stand you up? Yes, I have had it happen to me, BTW. Happens to almost every guy who is in the Game long enough!

BLM69 · 01-22-2013, 07:29 PM

Its part of the game

urharleyman · 01-22-2013, 11:25 PM

Luckily, I haven't run into that yet but after 2 times I'd be done. I may be able to understand one time if there was a good reason but I'd move on after the second for sure. Just my opinion.

TxTraveler · 01-23-2013, 06:53 PM

It happens to all. Day before appt is more likely......"1 in the hand, 2 in the bush" concept, especially if it's a new provider contact. Best is to stick w/ reliable providers that take care of biz.

Big-Z · 01-27-2013, 11:50 AM

Yea I have been stood up three times. Then one time it was my fault. I called a girl and got her rates but had another girl I wanted to see but after talking to the girl I wanted it wasn't gonna happen that day. I then called the girl that gave me the rates and made the stupidest mistake ever!!!!!!! I called and when she answered instead of saying are you available right now my dumbass says "Are you Free right now?" She hangs up and never answers again.