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duroperoseguro · 03-29-2011, 08:15 PM

Sex Addict

I have been in this hobby for about a year, during which I have had relations with approximately 32 different providers from many different parts of the world. This is becoming an addiction for me, I started maybe doing it once every two months, now I am restraining myself not to do it more than twice a week. Money is not much of a problem, the problem lies with my wife.

No, she does not know, but let me explain. She is an Italian/Mexican/Spaniard about 5’5” tall, athletic body (six pack after 5 kids!!) with big MM 34DD and a solid big round ass, and to top it, since all kids were C section, she is tight as the first time I popped her cherry. On bed she is a tornado, she will never turn me down, I think she even asks for it more than I do and she will do it all, even squirt. She always comes and makes me cum with her every time, I have never experimented multiple orgasms with any other woman, she really knows how to make me explode.

So if I have it all, why in the hobby? Variety. There used to be the day I would not look at any other woman, not desired any other woman. Once I entered a porn shop to by some toys for us, and I liked watching porn, and then masturbate when I was on one of my trips, and then….. well here I am.

I am thinking of quitting for good, I love her dearly and if she ever finds out it would destroy her. That is at least what I say, especially after fucking some provider and few days later, usually when I am traveling, I find myself on top of a girl bagging her ass.

I think I need professional help….. mmm from a provider?? Fuck, See?? Here I go again!!.

charlestudor2005 · 03-29-2011, 08:37 PM

So.....what's the problem?

the.namssa · 03-29-2011, 09:20 PM

LMAO.............wish I had your problem.

Out_of_Bounds · 03-29-2011, 09:46 PM

Does your wife need a sancho?Heh. Seriously though, try introducing the idea of a provider that sees couples.

Lcityguy · 03-30-2011, 07:06 AM

If you have a great wife then perhaps you should really value what you have and focus on her. You mentioned that if she were to ever find out it would devastate her. It may ruin the marriage and cause a divorce. There's an old saying - if you play with fire you get burned. How would you explain an std to her if she got infected from you?

shorty · 03-30-2011, 09:45 AM

A friend told me awhile back "You can have a knockout wife/gf and all is good for awhile but eventually someone is going to get tired of the other one." In this case, the statement is true. Hopefully he can get past it and get recommitted to her.

hughjass69 · 03-30-2011, 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by shorty

A friend told me awhile back "You can have a knockout wife/gf and all is good for awhile but eventually someone is going to get tired of the other one." In this case, the statement is true. Hopefully he can get past it and get recommitted to her.

I think the quote is

"No matter how good she looks, somewhere there is a guy sick of fucking her"

Naomi4u · 03-30-2011, 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by hughjass69

I think the quote is

"No matter how good she looks, somewhere there is a guy sick of fucking her"

I thought it was

"Show me a hot girl and I'll show you a guy that's sick of fucking her"

shorty · 03-30-2011, 11:26 AM

Either way you go he got tired of fucking her!! It's obvious he still loves her but doesn't feel the connection sexually.

Chica Chaser · 03-30-2011, 11:47 AM

If she anything like every other little Latina firecracker I have ever known, you better be more worried about your personal safety when she finds out!

Eccie Addict · 03-30-2011, 12:33 PM

Well marriage isn't suppose to be about sex....

Just my 2cents

Then again I guess that depends on your definition of marriage...

guest010313 · 03-30-2011, 12:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Well marriage isn't suppose to be about sex....

Just my 2cents

Then again I guess that depends on your definition of marriage...

The lack of importance placed on sex in marriages is probably one of the reasons that so many married men see providers.

Sex is just as important as friendship, compatibility, companionship.

Naomi4u · 03-30-2011, 12:49 PM

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Originally Posted by SillyGirl

The lack of importance placed on sex in marriages is probably one of the reasons that so many married men see providers.

Sex is just as important as friendship, compatibility, companionship.

agreed!

Ed Highlight · 03-30-2011, 01:00 PM

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Originally Posted by duroperoseguro

Sex Addict

I think I need professional help….. mmm from a provider?? Fuck, See?? Here I go again!!.

Gee Duro, that sounds exactly like my life except for the young hot wife, lack of financial problems and the guilty feeling that comes along every now and then....guilty because you might get caught!!

First step to beating the addiction is admitting there is a problem....11 more steps and you're cured!!!

Eccie Addict · 03-30-2011, 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted by SillyGirl

The lack of importance placed on sex in marriages is probably one of the reasons that so many married men see providers.

Sex is just as important as friendship, compatibility, companionship.

Agree that sex is just as important in a marriage as the rest is. If most men would ask their wives what it is that would make the wife leave the marriage and whatever their answer is then tell them that sex to men is "that" important then they might get a hint. But not getting sex should not be enough to break vows yet it is.....

If I read that right the OP never complained of no sex he just said variety. The way I see it is if you like variety then don't get married. Also most couples that get married are not completely emotionally stable nor are they willing to talk to someone to find out if they are therefore they go in with unresolved problems. Years down the road those problems rise to the surface and causes one or both partners to feel it was their fault.

Sorry for the rant...lol. It's something I'm passionate about