Gifts for providers/hobbyist

[siberia]

Do you give gifts to the
provider/hobbyist?
What things/services are given.
How often and why.
What items shouldn't be gifted.

I was gifted a manicure this xmas and was sooo appreciated.
Thinking about making fudge for my regular clients.

[Old Horn Dog]

Lovely Lolita made me lunch after our appointment. I still talk about it & it was almost two years ago. Amazing gesture. Plus: home girl knows how to make a really good sammich! :-D But then I'm easy: you can look @ me & tell I like my lunch. I wouldn't give underwear or any clothing--too many SO's know their man's wardrobe better than he does.

Keep it consumable: food, drink, etc. (client doesn't drink? Ask what kind of soft drinks he likes & give him a six pack of his fave ginger-ale; while people can be VERY particular about those--do not buy Diet Coke for a Diet Pepsi man--if asked, most will tell); or inexpensive gift cards (but here I'd only do it if the guy indicates he shops @ a particular place--make it personal).

[Nicolet]

I always offer options, water, iced tea, soft drinks, or something a little stiffer . Sometimes I have a tall glass of ice water already on the night table. Water is the most asked for beverage.
I have cooked for a few gentlemen. I made lunch for Marshpirate and since it was close to Christmas, I gave him a small gift that I knew he could get some use from, and something he would have bought for himself, had I not beat him to it!
I keep a bowl on my coffee table filled with Lifesavers (individually wrapped) in case there is a need to have something else sweet to suck on while driving home.

[DallasRain]

I keep m & ms by my bed...it is so sexy to lay in bed under the sheets together and eat them!

I will give gifts to my EXTRA special hubbys at times....I have given mardi gras beads memorabila that i have snagged at the paradaes to several Texas gents.....I usually tailor my gifts to fit that guys personality......I once gave qa guy a pair of lacy hot pink panties {they were so sexy for him to wear when met for playtime}

my favorite gift to give out is COWBOYS & INDIANS magazine,...it is a collecter coffee table book.


Now I have gotten lots of special gifts...VS gift cards/bass pro gift cards/lottery tickets {no winners yet}/a pair of skull heels.....I even have one guy that made a really cool wooden rocking horse for my grandbaby! And another gave me a Simon game for him to play with.


Gufts are not expected but appreciated....BOTH ways!

I luv this job!!

[siberia]

I know that part of being a
great host is to
offer drinks & snacks
but I don't want that
confused with gifts.

Making fudge might not
be a good idea because
it would be seen as a snack.

This has me rethinking of
something else.hmmm

[Lena Duvall]

I think things that are consumable (food/drinks) make great gifts. If you took the time to make homemade fudge for someone, I'm sure they would appreciate the thought and effort you put into it.

Some of my favorite gifts I've received from clients were drinks and tasty treats: chocolate, Jameson, and Appleton Rum. A gift card is also a safe bet. A thoughtful client recently got me a B & N gift card, since I've noted on my showcase and elsewhere that I love books.

[TakeItEasy]

I think fudge is perfectly acceptable. Don't give it to just anyone. I've never seen you before, but if I had seen you, and you offered fudge you personally cooked I would think it was special. I would know you give it to other regulars but be ok with it but it wouldn't mean as much if you gave it to just any ole John (pun intended).

Fudge is something you took your time to make. No adays so many ladies just want to make there money and get you out with no service. Many men pay for that additional attention. Sex can be had around any corner but the reason a man comes back is just something a little better. Knowing not just anyone could have your fudge (the cooked fudge that is) means something.

Ok, I've rambled enough

[siberia]

Originally Posted by TakeItEasy

I think fudge is perfectly acceptable. Don't give it to just anyone. I've never seen you before, but if I had seen you, and you offered fudge you personally cooked I would think it was special. I would know you give it to other regulars but be ok with it but it wouldn't mean as much if you gave it to just any ole John (pun intended).

Fudge is something you took your time to make. No adays so many ladies just want to make there money and get you out with no service. Many men pay for that additional attention. Sex can be had around any corner but the reason a man comes back is just something a little better. Knowing not just anyone could have your fudge (the cooked fudge that is) means something.

Ok, I've rambled enough

You not rambling.

I like men that can hold a conversation, easier to pickup
a vibe. A personality is presented
some through public posting. Wished
more men were eager to write.

[Outdoorsman]

I have gotten money back from a lady once. We talked really well and she enjoyed our conversation so she grabbed some of the donation which was on night stand that I left and said take it. I did not have to pay full price. That was thoughtful and felt real good, I ended up not hobbying anymore so I never saw her again, but that was nice. I have given massage envy gift cards for a massage before. I really only give gifts to family and friends and to be honest only person I gave a gift.to was the woman I fell in love with , who happened to be a provider. But another woman gave me that cash back before.my relationship with the provide.

[australian_hell_yun]

I saw a provider a few years back. I scheduled an hour and wound up staying the rest of the night. Amazingly we didn't have sex. She just wanted to hear me talk with my accent. Hell, she even cooked for me.

She no longer provides and we still keep in touch.

[mriley000]

I like to give giftcards, p411 points, etc, things that the provider can use as they like. I always appreciate consumables during the session, but dont think they were actual gifts, just thoughtful.

[Marshpirate]

Originally Posted by Nicolet

I always offer options, water, iced tea, soft drinks, or something a little stiffer . Sometimes I have a tall glass of ice water already on the night table. Water is the most asked for beverage.
I have cooked for a few gentlemen. I made lunch for Marshpirate and since it was close to Christmas, I gave him a small gift that I knew he could get some use from, and something he would have bought for himself, had I not beat him to it!
I keep a bowl on my coffee table filled with Lifesavers (individually wrapped) in case there is a need to have something else sweet to suck on while driving home.

It was a sweet and very thoughtful gift. I think of you every time I take a shower .

[Nicolet]

Don't forget the string puppet I inadvertently gave you!

[siberia]

A great conversation is the best gift
ever. He is taking the time to really
enjoy each other on a mutual level.
The famous saying_ I can't read
your mind.
I rather a guy tell me he loves
thissss, and, that without having
to pry it out.

Should clients/providers get birthday
Presents? Is that correct form

[Marshpirate]

Originally Posted by Nicolet

Don't forget the string puppet I inadvertently gave you!

Oh yes, I’ve been trying to duplicate that event, but its been unsuccessful.
Fishing line hurts!