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[Ms.Lady Y]

Originally Posted by oldmanoftheroad

I like you Lady Y but I don't think this site has become trashy at all.. Nor is it cheap. This business certainly is not cheap but yes, some of the girls can be trashy. NOT the ones here on eccie!! No way!! Lol...

There are trashy girls who charge a lot because some guy doesn't know any better. See mostly BP and some on SipSap - my opinion..

There are fine ladies who charge a reasonable rate and enjoy the fun time they have with the guy. Those rates can and do vary. Some of those are on BP and on SipSap as well.

This business and yes, it is a business in my opinion, is just like a few guys have pointed out.. Charge what the market will bear or don't, that's your call. Guys will pay for what they feel the service is worth and yes, some guys like that young chick no matter what she looks like. Others need that hot spinner that charges a little more because she can get it. Others want the wee bit of comfort and GFE they feel with a provider or two simply because she is laid back, not a clock watcher and likes the guys personality (or whatever)

I don't get to hobby all that often so when I do, I choose ladies I fit in well with.. I have a tendency to see the same one or two more often than not and neither of them is on here at all these days... That just means I haven't made it to see a few newer gals lately and it means that we all want something different. I can see where the new girl on the block gets a large bit of business as everyone wants to try her out.. pretty obvious when you look at the reviews..

Others offer specialty menus and it's their draw.. I get it...

What I'm trying to say is what several others have said as well.. charge what you think you can get. If you have little to no business, you're too expensive... for your market. Remember, your market is not the same as the girl down the street or up the road in another city... Whether you like it or not... your market is your looks, your age, your menu... (Damn good thing I'm NOT a provider, huh?)

Your BBBJCIM skills are awesome!! But for similar money and in several cases less, I can see a gal that doesn't want to shove a dildo up my ass and who I am very good friends with as well. That's no knock against you at all Y.. It's just is what it is...

I'd say you work as hard as anyone trying to make a guy feel good... but it's not all about that... It's about the connection we feel with a certain gal... at least for some of us... and some it's not... some just need to nut and be done!!

I will say a BNG special is a good idea... I've done that a few times and it was because like someone else said, I just needed to let go and move on again...

It's not up to us to set your rates. We can advise you, sure! But what the market will bear is what is the real answer... When you get tired of seeing 2-3 4 guys a day, raise your rates a bit and it will ease off... If you can only get one or two a week, then your market price is too high for what your offering... Which may be Greek but unless you love greek, charge extra for it!

Bottom line is we men need pussy... we will pay a certain amount for pussy depending on how much money we have, how often we can spend that money and who it is we are going to spend it on... If our funds are limited this week, we're gonna look for that better deal... If we need that island visit, we're gonna look for that. If I need a BNG, I'll look for the best deal there. If I am going to spend 30-45 minutes licking pussy, and 5-10 minutes on me, I hate to spend a lot of money to do that.. I'll be looking for that better half hour rate for sure!!

One last thing... something I thing more girls should so as a rule.. flirt with the guys a bit.. some do, some don't... But most guys love to be wanted. Hell that's why they are here!! BS or not if a gal says she wants me to make her scream, cum like crazy or whatever.. that's interesting to me... I hate the couple texts to invite you in then done thing.. but again, see, that's MY deal...

Enjoy the evening all!! Rant over...

This thread is not about any person including myself, it is a general question about donations.
You seem to be personally attacking me and white knighting someone.
Nothing I have written in this thread is or was meant to include anyone.

As for the board getting trashy. I didn't say I meant Nebraska board necessarily , I have been doing a lot of traveling and have been on a lot of other State's Boards.

I don't try to shove shit up guys ass's unless they want to try it. I am known for being very sensual and relaxing. But you never know who likes what until you ask them or try, if they do not like it or want to try it than it does not happen.

I don't know what your problem is with me but I have never spoke of you to anyone or done anything to you. If you are mad at me because your reading between lines and making this thread about someone or something other than what it is about "donation". Well than so be it!

As for flirting, I have never been a trashy talker or a verbal flirt not even in my real life, its just not part of who I am and I don't claim to be PSE, good for the girls that are comfortable with it, I'm not. Text flirting, well I was taught early not to do that, never know who is on the other end receiving those texts, for all I know your wife got a hold of your phone and is gathering evidence.

Have a wonderful day

[farmstud60]

Everyone looks at prices differently, my take is that $200 an hour is enough to keep provider from being high volume, but isn't always the case. $300 is pretty much my upper limit. While I have had fun with ladies over $300, I just don't have that much greater time, and would rather hobby with two different gals at $250 rather than one at $500.

5 ladies can blow on and nibble on your ear, while it fills nice from all of them, 1 sends tingles down your spine. You love the tingle so will try and see her more. I couldn't even tell you why she makes me tingle, I just enjoy it.

All you can do is be yourself, treat clients with respect. Respond promptly, I would say 12 hours, but at most 24 hours to any appointment request. If you have an issue that you haven't decided on that day, let them know you might have a conflict and you will get back to them by X. Remember that many guys have to plan schedules just as carefully if not more carefully than you, so if you aren't available, they will look for another provider because that time might be the only available time in a month for them to hobby.

[schmuckenputz]

Originally Posted by oldmanoftheroad

I like you Lady Y but I don't think this site has become trashy at all.. Nor is it cheap. This business certainly is not cheap but yes, some of the girls can be trashy. NOT the ones here on eccie!! No way!! Lol...

There are trashy girls who charge a lot because some guy doesn't know any better. See mostly BP and some on SipSap - my opinion..

There are fine ladies who charge a reasonable rate and enjoy the fun time they have with the guy. Those rates can and do vary. Some of those are on BP and on SipSap as well.

This business and yes, it is a business in my opinion, is just like a few guys have pointed out.. Charge what the market will bear or don't, that's your call. Guys will pay for what they feel the service is worth and yes, some guys like that young chick no matter what she looks like. Others need that hot spinner that charges a little more because she can get it. Others want the wee bit of comfort and GFE they feel with a provider or two simply because she is laid back, not a clock watcher and likes the guys personality (or whatever)

I don't get to hobby all that often so when I do, I choose ladies I fit in well with.. I have a tendency to see the same one or two more often than not and neither of them is on here at all these days... That just means I haven't made it to see a few newer gals lately and it means that we all want something different. I can see where the new girl on the block gets a large bit of business as everyone wants to try her out.. pretty obvious when you look at the reviews..

Others offer specialty menus and it's their draw.. I get it...

What I'm trying to say is what several others have said as well.. charge what you think you can get. If you have little to no business, you're too expensive... for your market. Remember, your market is not the same as the girl down the street or up the road in another city... Whether you like it or not... your market is your looks, your age, your menu... (Damn good thing I'm NOT a provider, huh?)

Your BBBJCIM skills are awesome!! But for similar money and in several cases less, I can see a gal that doesn't want to shove a dildo up my ass and who I am very good friends with as well. That's no knock against you at all Y.. It's just is what it is...

I'd say you work as hard as anyone trying to make a guy feel good... but it's not all about that... It's about the connection we feel with a certain gal... at least for some of us... and some it's not... some just need to nut and be done!!

I will say a BNG special is a good idea... I've done that a few times and it was because like someone else said, I just needed to let go and move on again...

It's not up to us to set your rates. We can advise you, sure! But what the market will bear is what is the real answer... When you get tired of seeing 2-3 4 guys a day, raise your rates a bit and it will ease off... If you can only get one or two a week, then your market price is too high for what your offering... Which may be Greek but unless you love greek, charge extra for it!

Bottom line is we men need pussy... we will pay a certain amount for pussy depending on how much money we have, how often we can spend that money and who it is we are going to spend it on... If our funds are limited this week, we're gonna look for that better deal... If we need that island visit, we're gonna look for that. If I need a BNG, I'll look for the best deal there. If I am going to spend 30-45 minutes licking pussy, and 5-10 minutes on me, I hate to spend a lot of money to do that.. I'll be looking for that better half hour rate for sure!!

One last thing... something I thing more girls should so as a rule.. flirt with the guys a bit.. some do, some don't... But most guys love to be wanted. Hell that's why they are here!! BS or not if a gal says she wants me to make her scream, cum like crazy or whatever.. that's interesting to me... I hate the couple texts to invite you in then done thing.. but again, see, that's MY deal...

Enjoy the evening all!! Rant over...

A big AMEN especially to that last paragraph, brother....

Who's going to put me in touch with that squealing redhead???

[12blue4u]

Its a free market system. Whatever they want. In larger markets where there is even more competition its even more of a price difference.

A 2012 Ferrari California is listed as 1 of Edmunds top worst cars. You pay over 100k for this. If the perception and the brand says its better well it must be.
But the reality is its not. If you own one you are going to convince yourself its better.
Kinda the same with providers. Well I paid more it must be better. Well.....no always.

I have gotten some really good and really bad service at both ends of the spectrum.

If it gets you happy there you go.

[burkalini]

Guys women are the prize of life. They are the evil of life. We do more stupid shit over women than any thing else. They are our drug. We pay more when our drug need hits it's highest. Then we tell ourselves after words" I'm not doing that again". Of course we know we will. We act like fools. We get in fights with each other over our drug. To really try to value a provider is only to say I think this is the value when I'm in my right mind. When we need our drug everything we said before goes right out the fucking window. I think the correct answer is. How much is she worth? How hard is your dick.

[12blue4u]

Depends on the pills

[Guest022718]

Originally Posted by schmuckenputz

A big AMEN especially to that last paragraph, brother....

Who's going to put me in touch with that squealing redhead???

Because you're a good guy.........PM sent.

[WhatHeSaid]

Originally Posted by I like rice

I had a really long typed out thing about rates from 2000 to now and I realized it didn't matter. I guess I look for a price point of $150-200 for an hour usually (that's till twice what I pay my plumber or electrician for labor). .... .

But your plumber, electrician or physician can work on her period ... and none of them have to keep an attorney on retainer. All I can say is that I paid up to $300 an hour (Cincinnati, Portland, LV) during the first GWB administration. I rarely pay more than $200 an hour now, and that's for top level talent, with extras thrown in. And if anything, the ladies seem to be more appreciative.

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

Rates should be based on whatever your expenses/financial needs are (so to an extent not asking what you do/"offer" for the money), volume you do or don't want etc. So ... with that you should charge whatever you feel need to and have time-frames that fit your tastes/needs. I've felt for a while hey if you're gonna whore/be a whore/escort/courtesan/whatever you want to call yourself don't be a cheap one especially if you don't want this to be a lifelong career but if that works for you thumbs up.

[Room Service]

I think whatever you offer in your menu should be available for the specific time that I paid for. If I bought the hour I want the hour, not finish in 20 minutes and sit around and talk, unless I want to talk, its my hour.

[GoBlue34z]

Been said many times, those that charge $1000 an hour can't believe someone would "only" charge $500. Those that charge $500 can't believe someone would charge $500. Those that charge $250 an hour....you get the picture.

I know if I want a 10 in Vegas I'm going to pay for it. If I want an 8 for less, I'm going to pay for it. I'm ok with whatever anyone sets their rates at, it's up to me if I think they are worth whatever they are asking. If I'm not, I move on. It's not up to me what they charge.

[w1nd3rf00l]

Supply and demand.

My demand limit is around $250 / hr now that I am ECCIE-wise, in line with expectations of our superb local providers, too embarrassed to say the most I have paid in the past and what for (it was on the road, not in Nebraska - and dumb, dumb, dumb, dumb, dumb.).

But as others have said... If it makes you happy...

[jaja133]

Supply and demand.