Dennis:
Unfortunately we as AAs have an VERY bad rep in this business (just AAs not any other MINORITY). It just takes one or a few bad black hobbyist to ruin it for other blacks. I would just take it as a missed opportunity and just move on. If you're going to be judged for whatever reason or have some lady not see you based on their 'preference' or whatever it may be then I would not want to see them and will spend the $$ elsewhere. And yes I know the ladies have a right to see who they want too.