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IaDork · 10-22-2014, 05:50 PM

Hey all, I normally don't like to take things public but feel I have to do so here since there is no way to work things out privately. I was NCNSed by Kaytee Kaboom in a most rude and inconsiderate way. Figured the Gents deserved to know so they can choose wisely when it comes to finding a companion.

To begin, I have seen Kaytee many, many times; she knows I have a multi hour drive to Omaha. And most appts with her have been good to great; actually thought we got along pretty well. She does have the occasional issue like showing up late, not being ready, etc. Yeah, its life. Things happen. I'm not perfect either; nobody is. But what happened on Sunday is outside the scope of acceptable behaviour and people deserve to know.

I arranged an appt with Kaytee on Thurs to meet on Sunday afternoon. I live a several hour drive away and before leaving exchanged texts with Kaytee to confirm we were still on. She answered that we were. So I left and did the drive to Omaha to meet her at her incall like we had done many times before. When I arrive, she is not there. I text her and she says she's running late but getting ready to leave. So fine, I'll wait. 1/2 hour goes by and still no Kaytee so I text her again ("Where are you ?") and got no response. I wait another 15 mins and call her phone, she doesn't answer so I leave a voice msg. I wait some more and after 1 hr and 10 minutes go by, I text her that I'm leaving. I was pissed but didn't say anything; but as I drove home I just got more and more angry. Later that evening after I cooled off, I texted her and asked for an explanation and got none. I have not heard from her and its been 3 days so I'm going public about what happened.

I spent over 5 hours driving to Omaha, waiting, and driving home, plus gas money. I have not received an excuse, an explanation or an apology. Offers to make it right, nope !. NO NOTHING. NOT A FUCKING THING. She has not responded to texts, won't answer the phone, or return messages. If she won't talk obviously there is no way to work this out in private ... so public it shall be.

Needless to say, this type of behaviour is not acceptable by anybody; guys or girls. Frankly any guy who caused a girl to waste 5 hours of her time on a wild goose chase would probably find himself blacklisted. I know guys don't work that way but guys you do need to decide for yourself. She did this to me; she very well could do it to you too.

There are other providers out there that will treat you way better. But you all can decide for yourself. My recommendation would be to stay the hell away from Kaytee Kaboom and see more reliable girls. Girls that treat people with respect and common decency. That's what I'm going to do. But gonna take a break for awhile first ... its supposed to be fun. When it ain't fun ... time to take a deep breath and walk away. So hobby safely my friends and make good choices ...

JimBob1950 · 10-22-2014, 08:27 PM

Fom my point of view, I hope you get bumped from this sight FOREVER!

Quite frankly, I think the moniker DORK fits real well!

61corv · 10-22-2014, 09:18 PM

Sorry my session went so long and wasted your time. I had a reaction to the Viagra and had to wait 5 hours for the erection to go down and she more she tried to wiggle off the worse it got. The neighbor had to get the garden hose out to separate us.

Relax Dude, it's not like you go to the BBB and complain. Be happy you didn't get robbed or in jail.

daredevil321 · 10-22-2014, 09:48 PM

What you guys actually sticking up for her.If you got a problem with this guy do it in private.She still NCNS on him and that's the bottom line.You make it sound likes its ok and it's not.

Ms.Lady Y · 10-22-2014, 10:06 PM

There is a lot more to this than you guys will ever know.
Let it go!!
It's both theirs undoing!!

Guest090116-1 · 10-23-2014, 05:17 AM

This site is about sharing information.
Good or bad.
Fair play or not.

farmstud60 · 10-23-2014, 08:38 AM

I know there has to be more to the story, and in some ways seeing a provider many times almost gets to be like breaking up with a girlfriend if the provider decides she doesn't want to see him any more. After she ignores him, or tells him she is busy a lot, she decides the only way to get him to stop bothering her is to NCNS him. I'm not saying that is what happened, but it is possible.

NCNS is a big deal, but when two people have a long time history together there is often more to the story than we will ever know. I am more concerned about someone NCNS someone in the first couple times they have seen in each other. Especially the first time.

Gladiator69 · 10-23-2014, 08:49 AM

I have never seen Kaytee, BUT she has 49 out of 50 positive reviews from a lot of respected members on this board, so like farmstud said, there is probably more to this "story" than we will ever know. Although I personally won't drive several hours for an appointment, I would not hesitate to see Kaytee if she ever made a trip my way or I was in Omaha for some other business.

Guest040816-1 · 10-23-2014, 09:35 AM

There may be more to the story than we will ever know, but if indeed there was a NCNS, it deserves to be made public.

Regardless of the provider, this thread (making it public) and gives her the opportunity to respond and explain how it wasn't a NCNS (if it wasn't).

I am disappointed that the original poster is being attacked for posting this information here. This board will cease to be useful if people cannot post facts.

Ms.Lady Y · 10-23-2014, 09:42 AM

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Originally Posted by farmstud60

I know there has to be more to the story, and in some ways seeing a provider many times almost gets to be like breaking up with a girlfriend if the provider decides she doesn't want to see him any more. After she ignores him, or tells him she is busy a lot, she decides the only way to get him to stop bothering her is to NCNS him. I'm not saying that is what happened, but it is possible.

NCNS is a big deal, but when two people have a long time history together there is often more to the story than we will ever know. I am more concerned about someone NCNS someone in the first couple times they have seen in each other. Especially the first time.

I think you have a very good point here.

Guest040816-1 · 10-23-2014, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Ms.Lady Y

I think you have a very good point here.

That may be true, but she needs to be upfront and honest and tell him. Email, text, pm, phone. Lots of options.

Ms.Lady Y · 10-23-2014, 09:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Smooth Sailing

There may be more to the story than we will ever know, but if indeed there was a NCNS, it deserves to be made public.

Regardless of the provider, this thread (making it public) and gives her the opportunity to respond and explain how it wasn't a NCNS (if it wasn't).

I am disappointed that the original poster is being attacked for posting this information here. This board will cease to be useful if people cannot post facts.

Okay guys, I received three private emails from IADork before he put this on here. I guess he thinks I am in control of her or would talk her into seeing him. Not sure what he thought. They pm's frankly were disturbing and I turned them over to the Mods, They reminded me of the movie "Fatal Attraction.
I seen him once a while ago (while him and Katee where having a falling out), all he did during the whole meeting was obsess on Katie. Then a couple weeks later I received crazy email from him. Which I never responded too.

Sometimes it better for the accused to not respond to the accuser for their own piece of mind.

Now with the NCNS I don't agree with it at all, something different could have been done. But it is what it is and sometimes shit happens.

daredevil321 · 10-23-2014, 09:50 AM

Maybe so Y but in my opinion NCNS is not the way to handle it,nor is public ridicule of someone offering to share info.

daredevil321 · 10-23-2014, 10:04 AM

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Originally Posted by daredevil321

Maybe so Y but in my opinion NCNS is not the way to handle it,nor is public ridicule of someone offering to share info.

Sorry Y,I posted this before your last post.For the most part were on the same page.

Guest040816-1 · 10-23-2014, 10:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Ms.Lady Y

Okay guys, I received three private emails from IADork before he put this on here. I guess he thinks I am in control of her or would talk her into seeing him. Not sure what he thought. They pm's frankly were disturbing and I turned them over to the Mods, They reminded me of the movie "Fatal Attraction.
I seen him once a while ago (while him and Katee where having a falling out), all he did during the whole meeting was obsess on Katie. Then a couple weeks later I received crazy email from him. Which I never responded too.

Sometimes it better for the accused to not respond to the accuser for their own piece of mind.

Now with the NCNS I don't agree with it at all, something different could have been done. But it is what it is and sometimes shit happens.

I agree. He should have never contacted you and have told him as much. That was wrong. And I know the Mods have contacted him about those PMs.

And you and I agree NCNS was not the proper way to handle the situation. But you're right, shit happens.

But he has the right to post that he was NCNS, regardless of the reason. Because that is the fact of the situation. And he doesn't deserve to belittled for posting it, IMO. We know that all of the women "know" about his obsession with Kaytee right now, so the men deserve to know how she chose to handle it with him.