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Karrine_Kream · 02-19-2014, 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by LilMynx69

I don't know about Indianapolis, but they are all over in Houston. Just avoid the lawyers, according to Heinz57 they are all bottom feeders (but for CivB)...

Seriously, you need to read up on what the guys think of and expect from a SD/SB relationship, read up on it on the internet and then decide if it's for you.

If it is, go for it!

Then tell them to stop hiding from me lol

Guest062114-5 · 02-19-2014, 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Karrine_Kream

Then tell them to stop hiding from me lol

You are so lovely, I can't imagine anyone ever hiding from you, Karrine!

Karrine_Kream · 02-19-2014, 12:10 PM

Guys tell me I can appear to be intimidating . I'm fairly tall too. Idk

I honesty don't think I appeal to sd I've only got the bser. Or maybe I just dont trust so easily. Also a lot of them desire unprotected sex.... and I am definitely not comfortable with that. It has almost always been a bargain presented to me at least .

Guest062114-5 · 02-19-2014, 12:14 PM

Honestly, the qualities that make a lady a great escort can hamper her from being a good SB and vice versa.

Being attached to one guy is extremely consuming.

Jackie S · 02-19-2014, 01:52 PM

I think the best SB's are women that have a regular job, and have a SD that allows them to have the finer things on life.

Also, for this to really work and be satisfying for both parties, both have to a like each other.

Always be prepared for when it will end, and take it for exactly what it is, a relationship based on the guys wanting to be with, and make love to, a beautiful woman, and is willing to,pay for the priveledge.

Karrine_Kream · 02-19-2014, 03:31 PM

Being attached to one gentleman has never been an issue with me.

I mean I haven't been a provider long. I relate to a .sd/.sb relationship more. Guys I date generally get too consumed and attached to me and I feel I need less emotions from men.

I appreciate the bond/friendship .sd seek. I also enjoy the level of intimacy and less likely to be so needy. Idk I can barely explain

Guest062114-5 · 02-19-2014, 03:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Jackie S

I think the best SB's are women that have a regular job, and have a SD that allows them to have the finer things on life.

Also, for this to really work and be satisfying for both parties, both have to a like each other.

Always be prepared for when it will end, and take it for exactly what it is, a relationship based on the guys wanting to be with, and make love to, a beautiful woman, and is willing to,pay for the priveledge.

I couldn't have stated it any better.

I'm experiencing the inevitable "end" now and it's incredibly hard. But I'm doing my best to remember all of the best times.

BlackKnight · 03-16-2014, 06:24 PM

After 3 years of total sexless marriage, I unconsciously went looking for an alternative....

-- I fell in "luv" with the first stripper I met, until I discovered she was in love with my wallet and a left the SC just as horny as I arrived.

-- I stumbled into the hobby, thinking that if my physical needs were met, then I could continue living in misery. Then....I met a young lady in the hobby and it was magic. Fireworks. Talked about her moving to me. We went apartment shopping. I discovered two things with her: one was I needed the emotional part as much as the physical, and two.....she was still a provider. It would have never worked. But, it made me leave the hobby for....

-- a SB!! I went thru a lot here. A LOT!!!! But, when I least expected it....

Met a young lady that somehow, someway, escaped her childhood. 9 brothers and sisters, 5 or more different fathers. She was 22 when we met, sleeping on the couch of her sisters public housing apartment. Three months later, her sister disappears overnight, and everything she owns is in her car. Now....

She's had her own apartment for the last 18 months. A newer car. Took her to the dentist for the first time in her life. Bought the first bed she ever owned.....where she doesn't have to share it with family. Finished her 2-year degree. She's gone from working retail to being a receptionist for a law firm that I set up for her. She's got an $800 yorkie that she treasures, and pretty much every piece of clothing she has came from me.

June will be 2 years that we've been together. I just turned 60 and am white, she just turned 24 and us Haitian/Creole. Naturally....we get looks. But we're at the point we don't care.

We've gone beyond SD/SB. More like bf-gf now. But it started out and lasted because we both had needs, and appreciated what the other gave.

Oh.......not once, ever, have we discussed money. Yeah, she's asked for gas money, or if she could get her nails done. But we never had a P4P talk. She's never been on a budget. I take care of her. And she takes care of me.

Fancylady · 03-17-2014, 10:22 AM

I'm looking for Sugar daddy. Indianapolis,Indiana

bladtinzu · 03-17-2014, 11:29 AM

Fact is any female on this site looking for a SD is looking in the wrong place. Any guy who thinks he can find a committed SB here us pretty much a fool because it will not happen. It has been proven time and time again. The odds are NOT in your favor. Hit the local college. You have way better odds there.

Guest062114-5 · 03-17-2014, 11:41 AM

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Originally Posted by bladtinzu

Fact is any female on this site looking for a SD is looking in the wrong place. Any guy who thinks he can find a committed SB here us pretty much a fool because it will not happen. It has been proven time and time again. The odds are NOT in your favor. Hit the local college. You have way better odds there.

Just because someone is looking for love in all the wrong places doesn't mean it can't happen...lol

Though, I agree that sugar relationships are more easily found in real life, face to face situations with civilians.

heinz5710 · 03-19-2014, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Honestly, the qualities that make a lady a great escort can hamper her from being a good SB and vice versa.

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You hit the nail on the head. Escorts run a business. SD/SB relationships are more like friends with benefits. Each is expected to give some benefits not really related to money. Not having to use a condom can be one of the benefits. I don't know for sure but I believe most sugar daddies are married. They are looking for a friend and a mistress. Not many ladies are willing to do that. Escorts tend to think about how much sex and time must I give and how much will I receive. It is always a business to them. Many SD are saying :I can afford almost anything. Will she be there for me?" It isn't a hooker for hire deal.

buggs · 03-19-2014, 06:19 PM

I had a modified SD relationship for a while...

I was traveling monthly to another city for work and had a prearranged overnight rendezvous with her each time I was in town.

Nice dinner, show and breakfast.

Right girl, comfortable situation for both of us.

Bigandbad1959 · 03-19-2014, 08:03 PM

[Fact is any female on this site looking for a SD is looking in the wrong place.]

And visa versa. Providors are usually just looking for a more normal life, with a more regular income stream from someone who is not a complete creep. The not so complete creep is looking for a cheaper hourly rate and extra overnights every now and then. Neither has anything to do with a SD/SB "relationship." It never works because there is absolutely no intimacy or caring. It is just a bunch of two-hour fuckings strung together. It gets old - kinda like marriage.

Goddess Athena · 03-19-2014, 08:34 PM

I would love one as long as the boundaries are clear.