Are you handicap friendly provider?

[AdventureAdams]

Originally Posted by simpleton

Ladies please be careful using sign lang. Thank you and f you are very similar and is a very easy mistake.
I one time banged a deaf girl. Which for a strnage reason was a big turn on just because of the noises she made. Too bad there isn't a deaf provider!

I remember my friends was going at it with one of my deaf friends, they noises that come out of this girls mouth were amazing. The cops came to the house to check up on us because apparently our neighbors thought a girl was being attacked and perceived her cries of pleasure as agony. When we explained why she was making that noise that police laughed "We are right next to Gallaudet Uni so we get calls like that all the time."

I guess you can say in a way I have a slight disability since I have dealt with severe hearing loss since I was a child but i had great speech therapists and signing teachers so no one knows that I am hard of hearing unless I tell them.

Only con to being hard of hearing in the hobby for me is that guys always love to whisper sweet nothings in my right ear. I always have to tell them switch around because I can't hear shit in that ear.

[simpleton]

Skylar so you know what I mean. I need to get to DC. Well when it warms up.

[LadyRed]

I have and would again... Had to help him in and out of the bed.. I told my boyfriend about it and it made him cry because it was such a nice thing to do for him...

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by LadyRed

I have and would again... Had to help him in and out of the bed.. I told my boyfriend about it and it made him cry because it was such a nice thing to do for him...

I understand!

[racecardriver]

From the American Disabilty Act.

[ArmaniAlabama]

Let me post before my 3rd Black Friday trip for the day.
(Then I'm wondering should I be using the term handicap or disabled? I'll google that later...)

Everyone keeps mentioning wheelchairs but that was not the situation I was presented with (or the provider who decided not to see the client).

*Lets say a client is looking for a provider who does outcalls and he informs you that he is not in a wheelchair, but has had a stroke. He can walk with the help of a cane and has no difficulty in getting in and out of bed but prefers to use his Hoveround to get around his home. He is not elderly, age 48. He has a live in caregiver and asks would you be comfortable knowing that another person was in the residence at the time of the session.*


The only question I asked was what color was his caregiver. All black caregivers/sitters/nurses who do homecare in my city know each other and gossip so I wanted to be sure discretion could be maintained.

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But back to wheelchairs and such. I only do outcalls anyway so I have no problem with seeing a disabled client. Most people who have lived with their disability for years know how to move in and out of bed. I've worked as a caregiver in the past so should they need assistance (and not weigh 300lbs) I would know how to manuver them without throwing out my back or dropping them on the floor.

I notice that the Ireland hobby site has an option for providers to check if they are disabled friendly. http://www.escort-ireland.com/

[Mature Companion]

One of my first hobby lovers was from Austin and was paralyzed from the waist down. Oh did he know how to please a woman! Another from Austin, due to injury while serving on the front line in war, was badly burned on 80% of his body with loss of limb and hook as his arm. And he was a wonderful sweetheart & lover.

Ones medical issues doesn't define who they are. In fact it makes those folks all the more wanting, to do more than folks who are not affected by medical issues.
Notice I didn't say handicap. As folks don't like to be told they have a handicap (unless your a golfer) as those folks don't like to be made to feel like they're limited to enjoying life in every way.

Not to mention, there's many different ways to pleasure a woman beyond just the sexual acts. And vice versa.

[mikkifine]

I remember (when I used to accept references) verifying a future client. I was sick to my stomach because both of his references referred to him as a cripple.

He was a nice guy and deserved more respect than being referred to like that.

Originally Posted by ArmaniAlabama

Let me post before my 3rd Black Friday trip for the day.
(Then I'm wondering should I be using the term handicap or disabled? I'll google that later...)

Everyone keeps mentioning wheelchairs but that was not the situation I was presented with (or the provider who decided not to see the client).

*Lets say a client is looking for a provider who does outcalls and he informs you that he is not in a wheelchair, but has had a stroke. He can walk with the help of a cane and has no difficulty in getting in and out of bed but prefers to use his Hoveround to get around his home. He is not elderly, age 48. He has a live in caregiver and asks would you be comfortable knowing that another person was in the residence at the time of the session.*


The only question I asked was what color was his caregiver. All black caregivers/sitters/nurses who do homecare in my city know each other and gossip so I wanted to be sure discretion could be maintained.

****************************** ************************
But back to wheelchairs and such. I only do outcalls anyway so I have no problem with seeing a disabled client. Most people who have lived with their disability for years know how to move in and out of bed. I've worked as a caregiver in the past so should they need assistance (and not weigh 300lbs) I would know how to manuver them without throwing out my back or dropping them on the floor.

I notice that the Ireland hobby site has an option for providers to check if they are disabled friendly. http://www.escort-ireland.com/

[Addison Blake]

I saw a client in a wheel chair once. He was only early 40's but had been paralyzed from the waist down in an accident. I went to his home and he had informed me before of his condition so it worked out very well.

He could get in and out of bed on his own but was still hard for him to do so I helped him, he really didn't need much help though.

Being paralyzed from the waist down made certain things a little more difficult but he was a sweetheart and I had absolutely no problem with seeing him.

[MissTThick]

I have had 3 disabled hobbyists through the years. I've never been with a deaf one, though. I went to a progressive elementary school where it was 50% disabled/deaf/blind kids and 50% gifted. We were taught from kindergarten on to be respectful and to treat them no differently because they were differently-abled. We were taught sign language as a matter of course as well. I've forgotten the majority of the ASL I learned, but I could carry on a stilted conversation if he/she were to sign VERY slowly lol.

[heidilynnla]

This isn't the first thread of this kind. Stop for a minute and think about how you would feel reading a thread like this if you were a disabled man looking for companionship. If I can fuck around with a married guy cheating on his wife, I can certainly provide a good time for a gentleman who has a disability. Geez!

I am not going to discriminate based on something beyond his control.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by ArmaniAlabama

Let me post before my 3rd Black Friday trip for the day.
(Then I'm wondering should I be using the term handicap or disabled? I'll google that later...)

Everyone keeps mentioning wheelchairs but that was not the situation I was presented with (or the provider who decided not to see the client).

*Lets say a client is looking for a provider who does outcalls and he informs you that he is not in a wheelchair, but has had a stroke. He can walk with the help of a cane and has no difficulty in getting in and out of bed but prefers to use his Hoveround to get around his home. He is not elderly, age 48. He has a live in caregiver and asks would you be comfortable knowing that another person was in the residence at the time of the session.*


The only question I asked was what color was his caregiver. All black caregivers/sitters/nurses who do homecare in my city know each other and gossip so I wanted to be sure discretion could be maintained.

****************************** ************************
But back to wheelchairs and such. I only do outcalls anyway so I have no problem with seeing a disabled client. Most people who have lived with their disability for years know how to move in and out of bed. I've worked as a caregiver in the past so should they need assistance (and not weigh 300lbs) I would know how to manuver them without throwing out my back or dropping them on the floor.

I notice that the Ireland hobby site has an option for providers to check if they are disabled friendly. http://www.escort-ireland.com/

Only the BLACK ones Gossip? Really?

[Naomi4u]

Good god who cares? This hobby is all about preferences. I am not going to fuck a disabled man because it's the right thing to do. If I don't want to fuck a disabled man, I'm not going to fuck a disabled man. I wouldn't fuck one or date one in my personal life so why should I date one in this hobby? Please. This is not a regulated hobby. My feelings aren't hurt when a guy says he does not see black girls. That is how this is too. Personal/Individual preferences. No sympathy. Goodness gracious.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Good god who cares? This hobby is all about preferences. I am not going to fuck a disabled man because it's the right thing to do. If I don't want to fuck a disabled man, I'm not going to fuck a disabled man. I wouldn't fuck one or date one in my personal life so why should I date one in this hobby? Please. This is not a regulated hobby. My feelings aren't hurt when a guy says he does not see black girls. That is how this is too. Personal/Individual preferences. No sympathy. Goodness gracious.

That kind of works out, rumor has it you might gossip to much? LOL

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

That kind of works out, rumor has it you might gossip to much? LOL

Rumor has it wrong. I only talk to two people on this site off the boars and I do not gossip with them. How about that?