Are Providers okay with hobbyist leaving after you open the door

[Guest032616]

So I know providers hide their face for safety, discretion, or because they know they really aren't that attractive, etc.. My question is this.. If a hobbyists takes the chance on coming to meet you based on your photo shopped body pics, but when he gets to the door and he sees what is behind it and wants to throw up, are you okay with him leaving? Also, do you expect the hobbyist to reimburse you for a no-tel charge?

[enderwiggin]

Who cares? If she looks like a lagoon creature or Mikki Fine, just walk out.

[Fancyinheels]

Really? Do you actually think any provider with a "photo shopped body pic" is going to respond to this at all, much less truthfully, or are you just complaining to the clouds? (Irish expression for blowing off steam.) Considering the rude way you worded it, "... he sees what is behind it (the door) and wants to throw up...," this thread's going to serve no purpose but to be another guy gripe fest with little female input and zilch positive feedback.

Enderwiggin, despite his less-than-tactful comment, is correct. If the provider doesn't look her photos, walk. Who CARES what she thinks if she is advertising deceitfully? And she would be nuts to expect a room reimbursement under false pretenses.

Pour the next whine, please.

[Guest032616]

You are right fancy, I'm sorry... if she has a legit photo but her head cropped out, would that make a difference

[Fancyinheels]

That's a tough one. Depends on if you are visiting her based on HONEST shots of her body and perhaps a history/good reputation, or if you want the total package to match top and bottom and nobody has commented on her face much in reviews. I'm an admitted BBW, so not the body type most fellows prefer, but I have a great smile (plus no family or career to protect), so I show my happy visage. Some gents really like that feature.

Have you run into someone specific who had attractive figure photos but when you showed up had more face wrinkles than expected, crooked yellow or missing teeth, bad acne, scars, face tats, whatever? What would be the line in the sand for you regarding facial features?

Some ladies will send you a face shot (as opposed to taking one ) if you ask politely.

[Guest062114-5]

If facial beauty is especially important to a guy, he should request a G rated facial pic AFTER screening. It's then up to the lady to agree or decline.

Like Fancy said, if the whole thing is deceitful, run....

Ender, did you REALLY have to toss in that insult?

[Eccie Addict]

It's ender..... He doesn't pull punches

[enderwiggin]

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Ender, did you REALLY have to toss in that insult?

Probably not, but given the tone of the OP's question, I assumed this was a tongue-in-cheek analysis of proper etiquette when the hobbyist is disappointed with the appearance of a provider, OR finds her to be physically repellant.

I stand by my statement. If a provider can have a NBA policy, a hobbyist can have a NUA (No Uggos Allowed) policy. And until a full examination and/or disclosure of the appearance of a provider has been made, any hobbyist has full rights of withdrawal from the transaction. Its up to him how "gentlemanly" he wishes to be -- i.e. how much (if any) compensation he tenders for her time and effort. Some would suggest that full compensation is in order. No. Others that her expenses (gas, room, etc.) should be reimbursed. To this, I offer that the hobbyist is also out time and expenses in getting to the appointment due to her false or unclear advertising. It's possible that the parties owe each other nothing.

[poppy71]

NFAP policy....no fake ass photos...ugly or not if its not you then the guy should walk.

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

It's ender..... He doesn't pull punches

Understood, but needless bashing is not nearly as sexy as soft plush bunny fur.

[Alyssa XOXO]

Originally Posted by poppy71

NFAP policy....no fake ass photos...ugly or not if its not you then the guy should walk.

[AlexisMoore]

I agree with Fancy. I too admit very openly I'm a BBW. Some guys don't think so, but I am. I post face pics cause it's some of my best features. I don't photo shop or falsely advertise. So if they show up and are expecting blonde and perfect body, that's on the guy for not doing their research. But if I advertise a pretty face, perfect body, then if I looked any different, I couldn't get mad if the guy decided to walk.

[Bluewaterrunner]

If you do your homework and stay on reputable boards like Eccie and P411. You don't have to worry about that problem for the most part. I agree with Fancy. If you aren't what you put yourself out there to be as a provider then you should expect to have people walk. Truth in advertising makes everyone happy.

[Guest050715-1]

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

If facial beauty is especially important to a guy, he should request a G rated facial pic AFTER screening. It's then up to the lady to agree or decline.

Like Fancy said, if the whole thing is deceitful, run....

Ender, did you REALLY have to toss in that insult?

I set up a fake yahoo account with a fake name but made it look like a real account not a working girl account. My personal email is gmail so setting up a Jane Doe email from Yahoo wouldn't in any way get mixed up with my real email and contact list. I would send a G rated pic and in the subject line I put Match.com picture.

[boardman]

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Understood, but needless bashing is not nearly as sexy as soft plush kitty fur.

FTFY